irc333 Posted September 13, 2013 Share Posted September 13, 2013 This is a first and not entirely sure what she means by not wanting to date "cheesy" guys (in her OLD profile). What is "cheesy"? Link to post Share on other sites
pteromom Posted September 13, 2013 Share Posted September 13, 2013 I would guess mushy romantic types. That she gags at guys that write poetry and make romantic gestures. Link to post Share on other sites
Dallers Posted September 13, 2013 Share Posted September 13, 2013 This is a first and not entirely sure what she means by not wanting to date "cheesy" guys (in her OLD profile). What is "cheesy"? Cheddar, Edam, Stilton,... really as long as it is around strength 3-5 it can be quite "cheesy". I assume she would rather you either did not eat or bath in it. I would get confirmation before dating personally. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
nescafe1982 Posted September 13, 2013 Share Posted September 13, 2013 This is probably just me, but when I think "cheesy" I think of a typical frat-tastic bro type guy. You know: khaki shorts, popped collar, gel in the hair, smells like spray tan and self-entitlement? But that's probably just me. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
miss_jaclynrae Posted September 14, 2013 Share Posted September 14, 2013 Cheesy is cliche romantic. I love cheesy men, thus why I am with my boyfriend. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
MrCastle Posted September 14, 2013 Share Posted September 14, 2013 Guys that smell like feet. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
FitChick Posted September 14, 2013 Share Posted September 14, 2013 Guys who wear shirts unbuttoned to the navel with gold chains and lots of cologne. Link to post Share on other sites
It's Just Me Posted September 14, 2013 Share Posted September 14, 2013 Agree with Miss Jaclyn. Cheesy is romance without originality. If cheesy were a high-class restaurant, all it would serve would be duck à l'orange, caesar salad and a nut-studded cheese ball with Jell-o and marshmallows for dessert. There is cute retro, then there is cheesy. Link to post Share on other sites
BradJacobs Posted September 14, 2013 Share Posted September 14, 2013 Agree with Miss Jaclyn. Cheesy is romance without originality. If cheesy were a high-class restaurant, all it would serve would be duck à l'orange, caesar salad and a nut-studded cheese ball with Jell-o and marshmallows for dessert. There is cute retro, then there is cheesy. The dessert sounds like the best part of that meal! Link to post Share on other sites
frustr8ed Posted September 14, 2013 Share Posted September 14, 2013 I don't know but you cheddar not ask her out! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
GravityMan Posted September 14, 2013 Share Posted September 14, 2013 A "cheesy" person to me is someone who tries too hard to act cool, or be funny, or be sexy/romantic, or "fit in". A good example is if the person often says cliched jokes, pick-up lines, or played-out romantic sayings. It's as if the person simply consulted a book or a website that listed a bunch of sayings and memorized them. Very little if anything seems to truly come from the person's own mind...there is a lack of creativity, ingenuity and improvisation. There are exceptions of course, as evidenced by earlier posts...but many "cheesy" people tend to be bland and boring in the eyes of others. And that is a turnoff attraction-wise for a lot of people. A lot of cheesy people seem inauthentic, unnatural and insecure. They're often not being themselves. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Yookie Posted September 14, 2013 Share Posted September 14, 2013 A "cheesy" person to me is someone who tries too hard to act cool, or be funny, or be sexy/romantic, or "fit in". A good example is if the person often says cliched jokes, pick-up lines, or played-out romantic sayings. It's as if the person simply consulted a book or a website that listed a bunch of sayings and memorized them. Very little if anything seems to truly come from the person's own mind...there is a lack of creativity, ingenuity and improvisation. There are exceptions of course, as evidenced by earlier posts...but many "cheesy" people tend to be bland and boring in the eyes of others. And that is a turnoff attraction-wise for a lot of people. A lot of cheesy people seem inauthentic, unnatural and insecure. They're often not being themselves. This is a good definition. Well said! Link to post Share on other sites
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