Broncos38 Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 Well my girlfriend told me that she doesn't feel welcome in her home anymore .after the argument they had recently. her mom wouldn't say hi to her at all. And my girlfriends mother distanced herself from my girlfriend. She is really worried about her is going to do about this situation. Her mom is still angry at my girlfriend for expressing her opinion. Her mom just doesn't listen like she has hard skin. This whole thing doesn't make sense at all. Her mom is like totally against my girlfriend. And she is 33. her mom hinting to move out. Giving her the ultimatum. She is seeing seeing a therapist to her talk to her mom but she told her it was about her mom of how to talk to her and her mom just flipped out and slammed the door in her face. They both cried. My girlfriend can't take the stress anymore that her mom is causing her.
Balzac Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 Your GF is age 33 and living in her mother's home?
Balzac Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 It's up to your GF to employ coping skills. Certainly all parent-adult child relationships run into conflicts. This comes down to conflict resolution skills. I'd advise you to stay out of it other than to validate your GF's emotions.
Author Broncos38 Posted September 14, 2013 Author Posted September 14, 2013 It's up to your GF to employ coping skills. Certainly all parent-adult child relationships run into conflicts. This comes down to conflict resolution skills. I'd advise you to stay out of it other than to validate your GF's emotions. ok, what should i do in the mean time though?
Balzac Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 You allow your GF to handle "her" relationship with " her" mother. Basically step away. Support your GF's decisions. 1
CherryT Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 You allow your GF to handle "her" relationship with " her" mother. Basically step away. Support your GF's decisions. I agree with this. Perhaps it's time for your girlfriend to move out of her mom's home. She is 33 and should be capable of that. 1
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