No contact, me stay strong

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Well yeah. But she and I weren't married and didn't live together. She lives about 50 miles from me and she commutes to my town daily to work over night. She has children and sometimes her roommates would watch them and she would stay at my house a few days a week.

 

So two weeks ago today, I took her to a dr's appointment here in town and we had breakfast together and she flat out told me "we have a good relationship" then she drove herself home like always.

 

She had to work Friday and Saturday night. She was going to go to work Friday night, sleep at my place Saturday during the day, go to work Saturday night and drive home to her place Sunday morning.

 

Well Friday night she called me on her way to work. Everything is fine, like always. In the middle of the night she came over for her lunch break and we kissed and cuddled in my bed. She was very excited about staying over with me Saturday and she went back to work. Everything absolutely normal. I woke up Saturday morning expecting her to show up to sleep over like we planned. Instead I got a text from her saying one of her boys was sick and she had to go home. She said she was sad because she couldn't stay. I texted back "no worries, we will have many more times together".

 

Well Saturday night I texted her about 7 pm to see if she was awake. She answered back. I flirted with her and she seemed responsive. Then she called me on her way to work after 9 (like always). I missed her call but called her back. She seemed not very talkative and a little crabby. I asked her what was wrong. She said she was sad (apparently she had been thinking about this all day) then she started going on and on how we were all wrong for each other and want different things in life...yada yada yada...I told her I wasn't going to sit here and listen to her pick me apart telling me all the things I ever did wrong, like she had been making a list. So I hung up on her. She basically ignored my texts for the rest of the night as I poured my heart out and I didn't really hear from her again until Monday when I texted her "can you at least tell me if we are broke up?" She texted yes and I fell apart.

 

I know that was probably more than you wanted to hear I just need to vent. It's so frustrating and unbelievable how something that was so wonderful changed so fast. grrrr

 

 

That is....so... bizarre. So weird. I don't get how someone can just flip a switch just like that. I really don't. Like you said, it's frustrating and CRAZY how it changed so fast. But I've been hearing everyone say that to the dumpee it changed so fast but that the dumper already started preparing. But who honestly knows... Only that person knows and they obviously don't give 2 cents to elaborate.

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You wanted reasons not to text him angry texts.

 

1) He will use them to make you look crazy.

2) They won't improve anything, only widen the gap between you

3) You may feel regret over it later.

 

The plus of texting is you get to release some poison back at him. I suggest you do like you are doing. Write the texts here in this forum. Let us have it.

 

C'mon, you know you want to. I'm your H. I dumped you. Your apologies don't mean crap. I didn't cheat, you're just paranoid. You're parents are losers and can't even take care of an animal.

 

"Yeah well least my parents are still together because they KNOW the meaning of marriage. Unlike you, you bailed out when things got tough like a coward. I thought you were a MAN but you are just a scared little boy who ran away back to mommy's house. I should have known better but you had me fooled. You are a scumbag piece of trash and I honestly am glad I see your true colors and thank you for saving me the trouble for later down the road. And yeah you didn't cheat. That is very clear now because you are socially awkward and I saw your Facebook and how pathetic you really look. I am embarrassed for you. You look high on drugs, pathetic. Everyone will know what a fake you truly are. And GOOD LUCK getting the dog. He is having a blast with me here in San Diego! Have fun with your TWO other dogs that you didn't want "

 

Hmmm doesn't seem angry enough! If this was a couple years ago, it would be filled with ***** mother **** you piece of *****!!! lol

 

But yeah like you said, it wouldn't prove anything. I guess the reason I would want to write him angry is because the moment this all happened, I bowed down to him. I put my pride aside and tried to reason and be sweet. Even after he texted me saying it was over I STILL was bowing. When I should have said "You mother fkng p*ssy say it to my face!!"

 

That's what I regret is not being angry at that time it all was happening. I felt like it would have made things worse because I wasn't sure if we could work it out.