Why do men entering into affairs want to humiliate the husband?

[odinseye]

My wife has explained that I did not take being humiliated by her one night stand real well. I was placed in a stress center for two weeks for anger management and depression, my father is very angry at me saying I beat the living daylights out of someone that was my social superior, Nick wants my head on a plate, I am back in a rehab hospital after a MRSA lesion ate a hole in my heart.

every one is stressed at the uncivilized, unsportsman like way I handled being cheated upon, humiliated by hitting the floor hard, and becoming what I am called by my father, a Frankenstine monster.

I admit that I wanted payback for the way I had been dised in my own home, I wanted to teach Nick what it felt like to be almost helpless, my wife comes into my room and runs as far away as she can get, my sister thinks it was about time I stood up to people, my brother said that I declared war before diplomacy again, my mother just smiles and says it put everyone on notice again, and everyone deserves the message as delivered, looks at my wife and asks why her mother would not let her stay on the coast but sent her back.

My father thinks that the minions of hell are coming for him because he did not raise his son to know his place, and to be a good loser. I stopped being the sprortsman my father think I should be years ago.

My wife is scared out of her mind now. The court has already said I had a right under stand your ground laws. says that when she was growing up it was the last person hit that had to back out of this type of situation, or face assault charges, she told my father if the police had not arrived she felt that Nick was a goner.

I will not change anything I did. If Nick appears in my home again I will not hesitate to really hurt him, I have informed my wife I did not care how much he meant to her he was not welcome in my house as long as I am there, there isn't any possibility I will change my mind I will never feel friendship for this worm. I will also not be a good sport about what happened, told my wife I will not take her back to the bus station or the airport again, if she wanted to go back east she had better get her thumb out and learn which way she had to walk.

My father says I am being unfair. I told him to shut his trap. There was more than enough interference in my life as it was. My mother says that if she hears that my attitude is not sportsman like again she is going to hit my father with an iron skillet, show him what being a good sport is all about. My brother said I really caused to much trouble already, my sister thinks I have not caused enough. I wonder if any one here thinks I should have been more peaceful in my reaction, or should I have turned the worm into dirt.

[serial muse]

My wife has explained that I did not take being humiliated by her one night stand real well. I was placed in a stress center for two weeks for anger management and depression, my father is very angry at me saying I beat the living daylights out of someone that was my social superior, Nick wants my head on a plate, I am back in a rehab hospital after a MRSA lesion ate a hole in my heart.

every one is stressed at the uncivilized, unsportsman like way I handled being cheated upon, humiliated by hitting the floor hard, and becoming what I am called by my father, a Frankenstine monster.

I admit that I wanted payback for the way I had been dised in my own home, I wanted to teach Nick what it felt like to be almost helpless, my wife comes into my room and runs as far away as she can get, my sister thinks it was about time I stood up to people, my brother said that I declared war before diplomacy again, my mother just smiles and says it put everyone on notice again, and everyone deserves the message as delivered, looks at my wife and asks why her mother would not let her stay on the coast but sent her back.

My father thinks that the minions of hell are coming for him because he did not raise his son to know his place, and to be a good loser. I stopped being the sprortsman my father think I should be years ago.

My wife is scared out of her mind now. The court has already said I had a right under stand your ground laws. says that when she was growing up it was the last person hit that had to back out of this type of situation, or face assault charges, she told my father if the police had not arrived she felt that Nick was a goner.

I will not change anything I did. If Nick appears in my home again I will not hesitate to really hurt him, I have informed my wife I did not care how much he meant to her he was not welcome in my house as long as I am there, there isn't any possibility I will change my mind I will never feel friendship for this worm. I will also not be a good sport about what happened, told my wife I will not take her back to the bus station or the airport again, if she wanted to go back east she had better get her thumb out and learn which way she had to walk.

My father says I am being unfair. I told him to shut his trap. There was more than enough interference in my life as it was. My mother says that if she hears that my attitude is not sportsman like again she is going to hit my father with an iron skillet, show him what being a good sport is all about. My brother said I really caused to much trouble already, my sister thinks I have not caused enough. I wonder if any one here thinks I should have been more peaceful in my reaction, or should I have turned the worm into dirt.

 

Can you be more specific about what actually happened? I assume you're describing beating up the OM when you discovered what was going on. But specifically, what went down that day?

[harrybrown]

If this is real, you do need to stand up for yourself, to respect yourself and have your wife respect you.

[Chi townD]

This story sounds really familiar. I think there was a thread started about this a few months back...

 

Therefore, I'm calling out the bunnies on this one.

[sweet_pea]

I doubt the authenticity of this thread. Another poster is saying the same thing, but from the 'wife's' POV.

[odinseye]

Having been reading this forum for a while and all the stories, this seems very fake.

 

Reason? Well a real name is being used, by a brand new user, and there happens to be another thread with that same name being used describing what happened, which can be found in the last post of this thread:

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/marriage-life-partnerships/infidelity/424570-dealing-humiliation-2.html

 

The possibility that both the cheating partner and betrayed spouse would use the OM's first name is basically almost zero. But that's just my insight on the whole thing

Could have continued with worm for myself.

[odinseye]

Could have continued with worm for myself.

also neither of us used the full name ,just the Nickname.

[Janesays]

I doubt the authenticity of this thread. Another poster is saying the same thing, but from the 'wife's' POV.

 

 

Yes and the person posting as the "wife" just happens to have the same, exact writing style.