One rule I've come to learn about life.

[NGC1300]

When you care (about anything); you lose.

[M30USA]

When you care (about anything); you lose.

 

But, on the flip-side, if you DON'T care about anything, then you STILL lose. To care without caring. To love without loving. If anyone figures out the answer, let me know.

[HoneyBadgerDontCare]

When you care (about anything); you lose.

 

With most things, you have to care, but just can't get frustrated when things aren't going your way.

 

With women in the west, yes, you will lose if you care too much.

[Pompeii]

Most of my friends who don't care about how they treat girls win with girls.

 

Most of my friends who don't care about how they treat money with with money.

 

Most of my friends who overall don't give a **** win at life.

 

Coincidence?

 

I think not.

[for666]

hahahahahhahahahahahahaha

 

you know why you loser?

cos you care about you'r friend's

you know what the deference between a loser and a winner?

a loser lose's and don't get up

a winner lose's but continue to GO FOR IT

 

i got dumped 3 time's so what

each time i got dumped i double'd my ability's became stronger and stronger

and guess what

each time i did it Better and Better

i didn't give up like you and sad (if i don't care i win)

i care ! cos I AM HOW I AM

and f everyone's majority idiot's that think differently

 

you know what funny?

2 of my ex returned .. why? cos i cared!!!

3d going to come two

but i'm in a new better relationship

 

love you'r self and people gonna love you

STAY hungry

don't give up

[carhill]

When you care (about anything); you lose.

When care exceeds one's sense of self-preservation and self-health, then there's a definite risk of 'losing' oneself to the care. Otherwise, IMO, it shouldn't be viewed in such absolute terms.

[tart6245]

Sadly, there is a lot of truth to this. Caring in today's world is considered creepy. Being nonchalant is considered great because it causes the other person to think they aren't worth anything and chase them.

 

It's tough to play this game, man, but I learn and improve at it all the time.

[Nikki Sahagin]

I felt like this today.

 

I put my heart on the line with a man I really like and it didn't work in my favour.

 

I thought, if I was just a b****, I'd get so much more attention/respect.

 

But ultimately that is NOT me. If it works for other people to be that way, okay, but I must live my life being sincere to who I am. I do not want to let anger/ego beat me into becoming a person that I am NOT.

 

Sometimes life and people are unfair, cruel. Sometimes you don't win. You can either accept that is how life is and keep going til you get your moment in the sun, or change into someone you aren't and even then possibly STILL not get anywhere.

 

For me, I will stay the person I am. I KNOW in the long run I will get more from life that way than pretending I don't care and don't feel.

 

That might be 'cool' right now, but it's not authentic living. Part of who I am is my vulnerability, my sincerity, and the right people will value those things about me. The wrong people will not.

[Nikki Sahagin]

Most of my friends who don't care about how they treat girls win with girls.

 

Most of my friends who don't care about how they treat money with with money.

 

Most of my friends who overall don't give a **** win at life.

 

Coincidence?

 

I think not.

 

Who can say that just because it works now it will work forever. I can't say anything about money, but I would question the quality of women he attracts (not physically) but in terms of esteem/character.

 

The problem is that people take success at face value i.e. he has a large quantity of girls after him, so he must have quality also. This is simply untrue.

 

I get hit on by men constantly. The quantity is there. The QUALITY (which is what I value) is not. To some people they might say, 'look at her, she's so lucky to have that attention'. It means nothing if it's 100 men who mean NOTHING to you.