7 months, several i love yous...then the contact stops

[beckaboo84]

I been talking to this guy since Dec 2012, however we really weren't interested in each other until Feb 2013. I wasn't into him at first, but I found that I cared about him. He spent time with me and watch crazy movies with me. We fell in love (also made things official) and no matter what we made sure we contacted each other every day...unless there was a disagreement. Well, he was really stepping up to the plate. He always told me he loved me and with every good night...he said I love you. He called when he got off work and he said he could see us growing old together. He saw me as his wife and having his child. I wasn't use to all this attention in a relationship because my last guy was horrible. So it took time for me to finally get comfortable and believe that this is real and this is what I deserved. But then I found out he was giving his number out online to random girls. I confronted him and there was a rocky patch for a while. I let it go and things were going good again until this week. I knew he was kind of distant. But he still texted me every day. I texted him Friday...and I haven't heard from him since (GOING ON 3 DAYS). I woke up at 5am this morning thinking about him and if he is okay. So, I texted him again and I didn't receive a response. So seriously...after 7 months and I love yous and the little things he did to make me feel special...he just stops contacting me? I'm disappointed and hurt. Even if he comes up with an excuse...I wouldn't believe it because I feel betrayed at this point

[whichwayisup]

He's not being very nice. Ignoring someone is not cool at all.

 

You have nothing to lose or something to gain if he wakes the F up.

 

I say, put it all out there and basically tell him what you've said here. (does he know about your previous relationship and trust issues?) If he truly wants you and loves you, he will work his tail off to show you how much he wants to be in your life and he won't treat you poorly or be mean to you.

 

This all depends if you want to lay it all out on the line for him or walk away now and just tell him you need more he isn't the one for you.