hurts2death Posted September 21, 2013 Share Posted September 21, 2013 dumpees lets become cooler.smarter.muscular more//// lets become more of everything .... make some noise ....have more choices of partners.... and plus(but we wont care) spread the word to our exs ear of how cool we are... lets consetrate on evolving ourselfs Link to post Share on other sites
Author lauri Posted September 21, 2013 Author Share Posted September 21, 2013 I am sorry but you lost me at "not seeing each other once in person." That is not dating. That is just an online friendship. I understand why would say that , but due to the distance and her conservative parents she couldn't visit me. I did the best I could for a girl I thought was worth it while I was gone...even so I understand why she lost interest but I don't understand why she would turn her parents against me and led me on saying we will be together when she had only the intentions of being single or with someone else Link to post Share on other sites
hurts2death Posted September 21, 2013 Share Posted September 21, 2013 maybe her parents helped in terms of changing her mind for youI understand why would say that , but due to the distance and her conservative parents she couldn't visit me. I did the best I could for a girl I thought was worth it while I was gone...even so I understand why she lost interest but I don't understand why she would turn her parents against me and led me on saying we will be together when she had only the intentions of being single or with someone else Link to post Share on other sites
Author lauri Posted September 21, 2013 Author Share Posted September 21, 2013 maybe her parents helped in terms of changing her mind for you No her parents loved me. She just told them I left her somewhere unsafe (which isn't true she was 100 metres from her car) and she got sexually harassed. Bc of that they told me to never talk to her again... They helped in the sense by pressuring her to be with me and it turned her off. Link to post Share on other sites
hurts2death Posted September 21, 2013 Share Posted September 21, 2013 forget about it my friend... exs are in a graveyard for us.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author lauri Posted September 23, 2013 Author Share Posted September 23, 2013 This is going to sound pretty lame but I'm starting to feel really sad. Just had bunch of my friends over for a long dinner...kept thinking how perfect my ex fit in with us. I mean I'm just sad I didn't get a chance to be with her after 1 year...I don't want to feel that. Is it wrong / not normal I'm feeling this way? Link to post Share on other sites
movingonnow1 Posted September 23, 2013 Share Posted September 23, 2013 This is going to sound pretty lame but I'm starting to feel really sad. Just had bunch of my friends over for a long dinner...kept thinking how perfect my ex fit in with us. I mean I'm just sad I didn't get a chance to be with her after 1 year...I don't want to feel that. Is it wrong / not normal I'm feeling this way? No man...this is normal. Don't let it bring you down or make you break NC. Remember dude, she ****ed up not you. Keep busy, you have been doing great considering the circumstances. Link to post Share on other sites
Nancy87 Posted September 23, 2013 Share Posted September 23, 2013 our exes were sheer *******s! y do u keep going back? They ****ed up our months n must be making love to somebody else right now. i mean are v so stupid? DOnt we get it? Link to post Share on other sites
Nancy87 Posted September 23, 2013 Share Posted September 23, 2013 It's because of them that v r on these forums?? DID U EVER THOUGHT that ull come here n post ur crappy experience? EVER? NO! They will realize soon. n they were so unstable to begin with. not a worthy life partner. sooner or later they were going to screw us! our brains with their ****ed up selves! Link to post Share on other sites
Author lauri Posted September 23, 2013 Author Share Posted September 23, 2013 our exes were sheer *******s! y do u keep going back? They ****ed up our months n must be making love to somebody else right now. i mean are v so stupid? DOnt we get it? I don't think we should be thinking about them being with someone else at all...ti doesn't do us any good. I don't think we are stupid its just our emotions playing with our minds...thats why its great for me to post on here and get feedback from people who have a clearer mind of my situation to help me remain strong. I don't have hard feelings against my ex nor do I hate her, but I still wish she gave us a shot and didn't do all this crazy stuff. Either way, its irrelevant because she hasn't come back to me since I cut her off just trying to switch the attention on it being my fault we aren't talking. Can't believe how much I misjudged her... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Nancy87 Posted September 23, 2013 Share Posted September 23, 2013 i saw his fb today. he is wooing other girls... Link to post Share on other sites
movingonnow1 Posted September 23, 2013 Share Posted September 23, 2013 It's because of them that v r on these forums?? DID U EVER THOUGHT that ull come here n post ur crappy experience? EVER? NO! They will realize soon. n they were so unstable to begin with. not a worthy life partner. sooner or later they were going to screw us! our brains with their ****ed up selves! Of course not!!! Damn....I wish I never had to post on here and I wish no one ever had to post on here. But we do for a reason, because we need support to get through these things. I don't care if my ex realizes anymore...its her loss. I come from a good family, I'm a good person and I got a lot going for myself. Just long distance screwed us over...but I thought she would wait...guess I was wrong... Link to post Share on other sites
Author lauri Posted September 23, 2013 Author Share Posted September 23, 2013 i saw his fb today. he is wooing other girls... Nancy you gotta stop looking at his fb and block and delete. You aren't doing yourself any good by doing that AT ALL. Even myself I have start to really stop myself from looking at my ex's social media as much as possible. It sucks bc its like a drug, but I'm stronger then that and will not let her hurt me anymore. You should do the same - don't let this guy hurt you anymore. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
hurts2death Posted September 23, 2013 Share Posted September 23, 2013 lauri how are you doing bro? Link to post Share on other sites
Nancy87 Posted September 23, 2013 Share Posted September 23, 2013 Long distance screwed me too and i waited! But now he has a new life, new job, new place to live.. And cherry on the top, His MEAN family got me off his mind. And he is so stupid to be convinced that God don't want us together. I just cant tolerate this crap that he puts it all on God and makes love to other women without a shred of guilt! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Nancy87 Posted September 23, 2013 Share Posted September 23, 2013 (edited) The best i could do to keep away from his social media is to look at it once a day only..I just dont know, i feel so curious to check on the crap he's upto! Edited September 23, 2013 by Nancy87 Link to post Share on other sites
Author lauri Posted September 23, 2013 Author Share Posted September 23, 2013 lauri how are you doing bro? Hey man... I'm doing okay. I mean I have my moments because I still wish she was with me...I'm just sad to realize she will never contact me again after her last "goodbye" after I deleted her on facebook. It's just sad to know that things had to end the way they did but I know deep down inside I did the right thing. I'm going to have my ups and downs but with what she did to me it just wasn't fair and I want her to realize this. I really hope she does realize what she did to me was wrong and thats all I'm really looking for in the long run. Link to post Share on other sites
movingonnow1 Posted September 23, 2013 Share Posted September 23, 2013 Long distance screwed me too and i waited! But now he has a new life, new job, new place to live.. And cherry on the top, His MEAN family got me off his mind. And he is so stupid to be convinced that God don't want us together. I just cant tolerate this crap that he puts it all on God and makes love to other women without a shred of guilt! Why would you want to be in a relationship with a family that doesn't like you? Forget that. It'll be a living nightmare to deal with them by the sounds of things.. Link to post Share on other sites
Nancy87 Posted September 23, 2013 Share Posted September 23, 2013 Why would you want to be in a relationship with a family that doesn't like you? Forget that. It'll be a living nightmare to deal with them by the sounds of things.. I feel they have to know me to like me. also i wasnt going to live with them anyway Link to post Share on other sites
lindsay1990 Posted September 27, 2013 Share Posted September 27, 2013 Nancy! You're making progress but you gotta stop the fb. Delete him. Also, about the family. Do you really want to know why they don't like you? Because of what HE has told them. This including the relentless pursuing after the break up. I tell you this because it was really hard to accept for me, but everything negative that came from my bf's family towards me at the end, came only and exclusively from him and what he would tell them. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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