X moved out but spent the weekend

[lifestyle1]

I feel weird.

My X and I broke up 2 weeks ago. he moved out. He told me he was going to lease a house, and gave a deposit, which brought up lots of feelings for me. But, I did like the time to myself and my (3 kids). He spent the night on Monday and we had great sex. The kids went with dad this weekend so he spent the night Fri & Sat and left Sunday around 3.

 

It feels weird to go from living together (3 yrs) to seeing his overnight bag.

What were our issues>? Mostly anger on a day to day basis. He would want to help me or tell me what to do (did I ask?) but the way he delivered the message was in a backhanded compliment or putdown. I did not take to this kindly. I was also tired of his not finalising his divorce after 4 yrs. His reasons - his friendly ex keeps him on her health plan, he takes the tax deduction for their house, he feels no need.

 

Well why buy the cow when you get it for free? It was time for him to **** or get off the pot- so I pushed him. I no longer wanted to play house unless he got his divorce.

 

Today he asked if any guys had started hitting me now that the word had gotten out that I'm single. He asked if I was going to move back to my old neighborhood so my x can help out with the kids (no).

 

But I feel weird. Afraid to watch him move on with his life without me. No longer a couple. so what did I do? I got a puppy. I figured that would occupy my time when I am alone. Did i figure I was allergic?

[Pocky]

You need to decide whether or not you want to try and make this relationship work or completely move on. You're in a limbo right now and I wasn't able to ascertain from your post what exactly you wanted. If he followed through with your requests would you be willing to start the relationship again or have you done all you could and you're focused on having it be over? Whatever you decide, you two need to discuss it and come to an understanding of what expectations are. If you have no interest in trying to make things work, I think it would be best if you stopped sleeping with him. It's hard to break a relationship when you're still having sex with the person.