From friend zone to "taking it slow"

[Sawce]

Not sure what to do...I'm in my mid-twenties. I have a female friend of 10 years this summer. A couple of years ago she started drunk texting me to and bang her, but unfortunately I was already bedding someone else that night (which I told her). Any way fast forward to now, I received a drunken phone call this time and it was her saying to me "I bet you won't come and f*** me." So of course I go to where she's at and it goes down. And after that it went down a couple more times. All of a sudden she's asking for pics of me to show to her friends and she tells them "Look at my Daddy." I never ask her what she thinks of me and out of no where she tells me all these guys out here are lame compared to me...including her "first love." She even made excuses for me being a player by saying "none of those girls knew how to treat you anyway." She always brings up the time we used to live together and how she "misses those days." Even lately she started saying how she thinks my family would teally like her. So we decide we want to see where things go and "take it slow." She just got over a 3 year relationship plus she knows how I bounce from woman to woman (I was sleeping w/dating 5 chicks that she knew when we first met). Everything is cool in the summer but now she's back in school. Maybe she will text me back after a couple days. I've only called at weird hours (12am and later) but those calls don't get returned. She also has a daughter she is raising on her own and in school she is trying to maintain high honors...even made deans list last semester. Is she really too busy? I'm used to just bedding women and then gettin a new one next month...but no monogamy so I'm not sure what I should be doing. I'm ok w giving her space but I want to know if I can maintain her interest..she makes me not want to be a player anymore.

[Tamin]

Have you tried taking her out to dinner so that you guys can talk? Try getting out of the bedroom now that it's established that you guys are sexually compatible.

[Sawce]

Thank you. That is very good advice

[Sawce]

Just thought I would update my situation. Long story short I played my card right....and currently I am still dealing with the same girl and things have gotten a lot better. We speak every day now, and we spend every weekend together. All u ever hear from her is how much she can't wait to see me again. We r still taking things slow because really we want to see how compatible we r for marriage. So I guess anyone that's in my situation where ur dealing with someone and things seem like they aren't going well. Just play ur situation cool and seek good advice from people BEFORE u go crazy and potentially mess things up with the person u r dating.