She gave me her # and flirted with me but has a boyfriend 4 YEARS

[manny702]

Ok well this is going to be a long post guys srry bare with me. Ok im 18 and i met a girl today in college shes 20 anyways, i told my friend i thought she was sexy and shyt and he didnt think id go up to her and talk to her. So i went up to her and started talking to her, anyways we were talking and getting the basics out the way her name where she was from all that, then she told me she had a kid so i mean we had already been talking for like 30 mins before she told me. Anyways i then ASKED HER if she was still with the baby daddy of her kid and she said yes i live with him, so i felt like shyt its over right here and there but i kept talking to her. Then she started asking me personal questions like if i had a gf and wats the longest i had been with a girl and she even said that i looked like a player type guy? Anyways we kept talking and the whole time she was laughing and saying she loved my spanish accent and this and that then i asked her about her personal life and if she still felt the same way about her bf life she did when they first started dating. At first she didnt answer then she kept saying umm well ya i love him but idk its complicated, so i asked her if she felt bored and she started complaining about all these things he did sometimes and yes she was kind of boered anyways as the day went on i started helping her on her HW which she asked me to help her with. So i sat next to her and i had my hand by her legs and she didnt seem to care. TBH she kept moving closer to me lol but ya i was with her like 4-5 hours in 1 day alone and she said she liked my company alot so before i left i told her let me get your # she agreed and started laughing saying it was crazy when i asked her wat was crazy she said nothing, and i even asked her if she texted any guys she said nope cuz her bf is kinda jealous and if he found her talking to me he'd get pissed but she seem to not care and still kept flirting and gave me the digits....SOOO the question is, is she down to get the Dick or did she just want my attention? I dnt want to date her wat so ever but she is thick and id love to bang her!!

[ExpatInItaly]

Ok well this is going to be a long post guys srry bare with me. Ok im 18 and i met a girl today in college shes 20 anyways, i told my friend i thought she was sexy and shyt and he didnt think id go up to her and talk to her. So i went up to her and started talking to her, anyways we were talking and getting the basics out the way her name where she was from all that, then she told me she had a kid so i mean we had already been talking for like 30 mins before she told me. Anyways i then ASKED HER if she was still with the baby daddy of her kid and she said yes i live with him, so i felt like shyt its over right here and there but i kept talking to her. Then she started asking me personal questions like if i had a gf and wats the longest i had been with a girl and she even said that i looked like a player type guy? Anyways we kept talking and the whole time she was laughing and saying she loved my spanish accent and this and that then i asked her about her personal life and if she still felt the same way about her bf life she did when they first started dating. At first she didnt answer then she kept saying umm well ya i love him but idk its complicated, so i asked her if she felt bored and she started complaining about all these things he did sometimes and yes she was kind of boered anyways as the day went on i started helping her on her HW which she asked me to help her with. So i sat next to her and i had my hand by her legs and she didnt seem to care. TBH she kept moving closer to me lol but ya i was with her like 4-5 hours in 1 day alone and she said she liked my company alot so before i left i told her let me get your # she agreed and started laughing saying it was crazy when i asked her wat was crazy she said nothing, and i even asked her if she texted any guys she said nope cuz her bf is kinda jealous and if he found her talking to me he'd get pissed but she seem to not care and still kept flirting and gave me the digits....SOOO the question is, is she down to get the Dick or did she just want my attention? I dnt want to date her wat so ever but she is thick and id love to bang her!!

 

Ok, then...is this a real post?

 

If so, I'm sure her "kind of" jealous boyfriend would love to pound your face when he finds out that you "banged" his girlfriend. By the sounds of your post, you're not ready for that. Find someone else who isn't a cheater.

[manny702]

no im serious man this girl gave me her number in my opnion i think she showed signs that she was intrested i might be wrong but i mean she wouldnt give me her number and talk to me for like 4-5 hours if she wasnt or would she? Just asking for you guys opnion thats all...

[ExpatInItaly]

First of all, I'm not a man. Second of all, who cares if she's interested? She has a boyfriend and she openly told you that he is a jealous man. She probably wants your attention but you will be the one to pay when her boyfriend finds out. And don't kid yourself, he WILL find out and he very likely WILL come looking for you.

[cif]

why oh why would you want to be with someone who's already taken? Lack of options?

[CrystalCastles]

This girl reeks of immaturity. She sounds like trash.

 

Seriously? You actually want this trash? Don't you want a decent girl with boundaries instead? I think you're just young and immature and you're probably looking for fun. Still, I'd think twice about getting involved here, you don't want to have to face unpleasant consequences later.

[manny702]

well i mean i texted her saying oh hey its me that guy heres my number blah blah and then she started texting me all night, so my friend told me to test her out and i started saying more more and "inappropriate' things to her and she didnt seem to mind just laughed at it. AND I SAID NO i dnt want to date her wat so ever but if she wants the D i wouldnt mind giving it to her u kno? Its just one of those things where i think she wants the D but at the same time idk if she just wants attention you know? So idk she hits me up flirts with me and soo far she hasnt set any boundaries soooo......ya lol

[Keenly]

This girl reeks of immaturity. She sounds like trash.

 

Seriously? You actually want this trash? Don't you want a decent girl with boundaries instead? I think you're just young and immature and you're probably looking for fun. Still, I'd think twice about getting involved here, you don't want to have to face unpleasant consequences later.

 

 

The dude wants to get laid, and at 18, I don't blame him.

 

If he doesn't sleep with her, some other guy will, because obviously she wants it.

[ExpatInItaly]

well i mean i texted her saying oh hey its me that guy heres my number blah blah and then she started texting me all night, so my friend told me to test her out and i started saying more more and "inappropriate' things to her and she didnt seem to mind just laughed at it. AND I SAID NO i dnt want to date her wat so ever but if she wants the D i wouldnt mind giving it to her u kno? Its just one of those things where i think she wants the D but at the same time idk if she just wants attention you know? So idk she hits me up flirts with me and soo far she hasnt set any boundaries soooo......ya lol

 

How awesome...high five?

[James-London]

I don't think you have any moral obligations to the boyfriend here, unless you know him. You have no relationship with him and you owe him nothing. The only person with obligations is the girlfriend, who would be 100% responsible.

 

One question to ask yourself: how would you feel if it happened to you? if you had a girl who you really loved, would you be able to shrug your shoulders and not feel any anger towards the guy she cheated on you with? If you genuinely would not blame him, then go for it.... as said above, she's going to cheat anyway, so it may as well be you.

[manny702]

well today i asked that chick if she wanted to go to a party and she said ya and then asked ME if she should bring her BF along LOL and then she said she would go with some friends soo ya SON!!

[Purepony]

Hes thinking im gonna get some! Yeah!

 

Shes thinking hes just nice to talk to

 

Hahaha

[crederer]

She sounds like a slag.

 

If you want a gf, this is not a good option. If you want a piece of ass, Karma will get to you eventually.

 

Take the high road man, many single women out there. Plus her bf might found and and stomp the ever loving piss out of you and youd deserve it.

[manny702]

well i mean i guess your right i cant say im getting any till it happens you kno, but still just the way things are heading seems like shes down. I mean giving good feedback signs shes intrested and even saying she coming alone come on now lol. AND NO I SAID I DNT WANT TO DATE HER AT ALL never never ever lol shes a momma no thanks but ya she sexy as hell tho so i wouldnt mind smashing. And nah its a 1 time thing u kno...well if it even happens haha

[Misfortune]

Mature people can barely resist the urge to cheat/do the seemingly right thing, so I'm guessing it's much harder for someone younger. Great body, older woman, M.I.L.F., in college and the thrill that people get from screwing someone else's spouse.....quite difficult to pass up.

 

Hit it, quit it and prepare yourself for the consequences.

 

Hopefully she doesn't secretly bring her bf her long to mess you up. Some people get a thrill out of making their spouses jealous and seeing them beat someone up over them.

[ExpatInItaly]

Mature people can barely resist the urge to cheat/do the seemingly right thing, so I'm guessing it's much harder for someone younger. Great body, older woman, M.I.L.F., in college and the thrill that people get from screwing someone else's spouse.....quite difficult to pass up.

 

Hit it, quit it and prepare yourself for the consequences.

 

Hopefully she doesn't secretly bring her bf her long to mess you up. Some people get a thrill out of making their spouses jealous and seeing them beat someone up over them.

 

That's what I would be most concerned about. But then again, at 18, a lot of kids lack the maturity to care about the consequences...

[Space Ritual]

well i mean i guess your right i cant say im getting any till it happens you kno, but still just the way things are heading seems like shes down. I mean giving good feedback signs shes intrested and even saying she coming alone come on now lol. AND NO I SAID I DNT WANT TO DATE HER AT ALL never never ever lol shes a momma no thanks but ya she sexy as hell tho so i wouldnt mind smashing. And nah its a 1 time thing u kno...well if it even happens haha

 

LOL...she is down alright....she is down to get her jollies by watching her boyfriend kick your ass. Sounds to me like she needs an ego boost, and you are made to order, there, Romeo.