chibisparkle Posted September 20, 2013 Share Posted September 20, 2013 Hi, all. I hope you could give me your opinion about something because right now, I am in a state of limbo. I am a newlywed, but my husband and I do not live together (yet? it is not for my lack of trying). But, our places are within minutes from each other. I had a fight with my husband two weeks ago on a Friday. In the fight, he was extremely mean and said that he didn't love me. I was understandably hurt and upset. The next day, he came to my apartment and said he was sorry. I felt it was more like a half apology for something so hurtful. He started watching tv like nothing ever happened instead of discussing it. I asked him about it, and he got mad that I was still upset by what he said. My husband exclaimed that he "didn't want to be around me," and he promptly left. Once a night, for about three days afterwards, he tried to call me, but I was really too upset to pick up the phone. Besides, he never texted, emailed, or visited me in person, which I had told him I felt more comfortable with. I don't really like talking on the phone about a fight because I end up doing most of the talking--he was previously aware of my opinion on this. However, the phone calls stopped after three days. It has been two weeks now since the time he told me he didn't want to be around me. No contact from my husband. Did he essentially break up with me and is just too cowardly to say it? Link to post Share on other sites
Author chibisparkle Posted September 20, 2013 Author Share Posted September 20, 2013 Just to clarify, when we have fights, I always reach out to him to heal the relationship, even if it was his initial problem. I am personally sick of this, and I feel I shouldn't have to call or contact him. I have always fought for our relationship, every single time, and I think, after what he said, he should at least show some remorse and want to fight for me. I mean, he said he didn't love me and didn't want to be around me; I am not going to throw myself at him. Link to post Share on other sites
littlejaz Posted September 20, 2013 Share Posted September 20, 2013 Don't know what to say to you, but doesn't seem much like a marriage if you don't live together but live minutes apart. I could understand if it was a long distance relationship. If I was in your shoes I think I would call, text or email him and request a meeting to discuss your problems, if he is not willing then I would move on. Link to post Share on other sites
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