JoelBarish Posted September 21, 2013 Share Posted September 21, 2013 My ex texted me on Wednesday. I ended up texting back and forth with her a bit. Sigh 2 Days NC 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Scorpio Posted September 21, 2013 Share Posted September 21, 2013 Lets see. Prior to yesterday, about 22 months. I'm an NC ninja, I once maintained it even though my ex was literally 4 feet infront of me at a concert. Ninja I tell ya. 6 Link to post Share on other sites
AnyaNova Posted September 21, 2013 Share Posted September 21, 2013 Day 15. Although I slipped accidentally and messaged him on the 11th. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
thishatteredsymphony Posted September 21, 2013 Share Posted September 21, 2013 Day 46. Would have been closer to 90 if I hadn't contacted her about 5 1/2 weeks ago. Link to post Share on other sites
ScienceGal Posted September 21, 2013 Share Posted September 21, 2013 Day 10 since BU, day 5 NC. Mutual split because we fought all the time and just couldn't make our different personalities work together. I reached out a few days post BU because I wanted to keep trying. He was sweet, but did not share my desire to be together. I wished him well and then deleted his contact info. I feel lost, confused, alone, disappointed, and empty. Pretty sure I'm going the route of numbing out for a while as a means to not feel any more pain. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
OverThinker72 Posted September 21, 2013 Share Posted September 21, 2013 Made it to 9 weeks No Contact and he got in touch Now 8 days No Contact and not answering his calls or texts again 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Klaatu17 Posted September 21, 2013 Share Posted September 21, 2013 Today is day 53. Not easy...especially on the weekends...that was when we always hung out. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
candie13 Posted September 21, 2013 Share Posted September 21, 2013 It's been exactly exactly one month after the break up that we both decided to stop all contact, as it was getting ridiculous. Day 2 of full NC just ended. During that first month, the best I managed to do - NC I mean - was 10 days. He'd always crack and contact me, I'd always end up responding. A few days ago, he stated his "terms" and we both agreed to disagree, so I am leaving it there. He's stubborn and proud, I'm even more proud and hurt, with a bit of luck, things will stay smooth from now on. Separated. Apart. May he never contact me again, because I'm good. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
petall Posted September 21, 2013 Share Posted September 21, 2013 3.5 months. No breaking of NC at all since BU though I had some very bad days at the beginning. Still do now, today being one of them. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Minneloa Posted September 21, 2013 Share Posted September 21, 2013 3.5 months also. Starting to feel a major shift in perspective. At last! It gets better! 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Misfortune Posted September 21, 2013 Share Posted September 21, 2013 3 months and counting. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JoelBarish Posted September 22, 2013 Author Share Posted September 22, 2013 Day 3 Is there a cure to stop me looking at my phone every 10 seconds to see if she texted me? 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Klaatu17 Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 Day 3 Is there a cure to stop me looking at my phone every 10 seconds to see if she texted me? Hoo Boy...exactly where I am... Link to post Share on other sites
NomiMalone Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 Almost 3 months since break up, a month NC. I'm doing awesome, but he is still the first thing I think about in the morning, the last thing I think about at night. I miss him so much. Leaving him was the hardest thing I've ever done, even though if was the right thing to do for both of us. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
candie13 Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 Strange. Day 3 today. I went to the coffee shop where I always go to work and he appeared. We barely made eye contact, I acted busy. The bloody bastard took a coffee and sat right next to my table, for half an hour, "reading a newspaper". He left and sent me a text "not easy ... ;-)". I just pressed the delete button. Like wtf ? I've stopped going to all the bars and clubs where I used to hang out with my friends, I've stopped going to the same dance school where we've met, he's just lame. Not sure if today counts as NC. I'll stop coming here, bloody hell, big baby, just lay off already! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author JoelBarish Posted October 2, 2013 Author Share Posted October 2, 2013 Day 13 Sigh The number keeps getting bigger and that makes me sad. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
love1336x Posted October 2, 2013 Share Posted October 2, 2013 I think it's been about two or three weeks... Link to post Share on other sites
love1336x Posted October 2, 2013 Share Posted October 2, 2013 Day 13 Sigh The number keeps getting bigger and that makes me sad. Awww, I can't wait until my number is like 360!!! :D:D 2 Link to post Share on other sites
lindsay1990 Posted October 2, 2013 Share Posted October 2, 2013 77 since Break up 56 since Moving out 46 since Email Received ("I love you and wish you only the best") 41 No Contact - since Replying to breadcrumbs saying F Off 5 Link to post Share on other sites
halifaxboy Posted October 2, 2013 Share Posted October 2, 2013 41 days. Since she said its over i replied "i will not contact you again" and i havent. I'm treating myself to a solo vacation to Italy for 10 days, leaving on Sunday, so i guess there'll be no contact then..lol (i live in Canada)..slowly but surely 6 Link to post Share on other sites
RiceaRoni Posted October 2, 2013 Share Posted October 2, 2013 Day 13 Sigh The number keeps getting bigger and that makes me sad. You got this J The bigger the better. Once you get to like day 62 you'll be feeling a whole lot less sad Whoohoo! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Petunia20 Posted October 2, 2013 Share Posted October 2, 2013 3 months NC for me and he is also the first thing I think about when I wake up and the last thing I think about when I go to sleep. In fact, he is in my thoughts all throughout my day. However, I am doing a lot better and not as sad or depressed as I once was. I shed tears here and there when I am reminded of something personal. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
AnyaNova Posted October 2, 2013 Share Posted October 2, 2013 Day 26 for me. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
AnnaAnna Posted October 2, 2013 Share Posted October 2, 2013 Day 5 for me. Would have been 7 but I broke down and texted him so I had to start over. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
UnknownFX Posted October 3, 2013 Share Posted October 3, 2013 i started again after a week of nc she contacted me on sunday i replied and met the day after. the weird thing is that she was acting like she was really into me all over again until we had sex( i wasn't expecting that cuz i want more than that) and she said she felt stupid after we were done? idk what she meant by that but anyways before we parted ways she told that i should let go of things? she is going to keep in touch with me im the dumpee. so its day 1 now. because i txted her twice if it was really over between us, after a couple of minutes had past i txted her im letting go. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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