Author Leaving Posted November 30, 2013 Author Share Posted November 30, 2013 I hope you had a nice holyday dinner with Sarah. Had a great time her family really went out the way to welcome me and her father and brother invited me to go fishing this sunday.... hopefully one day you will be able to recreate that scene with the root beer with little kids around you. Kids will come one day and i look foward to making new memories and passing down traditions that was taught by my family rootbeer included,but as of right now i'm enjoying life and seeing where it takes me.Not ready for kids just yet Link to post Share on other sites
Author Leaving Posted December 8, 2013 Author Share Posted December 8, 2013 It has finally happen me and Sarah connected on a sexual level that was beyond my expectations it was going to happen sooner or later and why not sooner since my Sluut of a wife was spotted leaving a cheap hotel with that piece of shiiit since she doesn't care why should I 4 Link to post Share on other sites
peruano99 Posted December 8, 2013 Share Posted December 8, 2013 It has finally happen me and Sarah connected on a sexual level that was beyond my expectations it was going to happen sooner or later and why not sooner since my Sluut of a wife was spotted leaving a cheap hotel with that piece of shiiit since she doesn't care why should I So she is still with that guy after all of this? Give it a few months before they are all broke. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Leaving Posted December 9, 2013 Author Share Posted December 9, 2013 After all the **** they put me through they're still together.I know that POS like the back of my hand he's only with her because he sees dollar signs and when she has spent the money she'll be getting back from our divorce he's going to get ghost he has been that way his whole life getting dumb women to fall for his act STBX included.Hopefully she'll wake up B4 he drains her dry... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
atreides Posted December 9, 2013 Share Posted December 9, 2013 After all the **** they put me through they're still together.I know that POS like the back of my hand he's only with her because he sees dollar signs and when she has spent the money she'll be getting back from our divorce he's going to get ghost he has been that way his whole life getting dumb women to fall for his act STBX included.Hopefully she'll wake up B4 he drains her dry... why? just let her dig her own hole even deeper. cheers. Link to post Share on other sites
peruano99 Posted December 9, 2013 Share Posted December 9, 2013 After all the **** they put me through they're still together.I know that POS like the back of my hand he's only with her because he sees dollar signs and when she has spent the money she'll be getting back from our divorce he's going to get ghost he has been that way his whole life getting dumb women to fall for his act STBX included.Hopefully she'll wake up B4 he drains her dry... If you had stayed with her, her affair would probably be still going if she still is with him after all of this. Good job dumping the girl. Link to post Share on other sites
Clay Posted December 9, 2013 Share Posted December 9, 2013 After all the **** they put me through they're still together.I know that POS like the back of my hand he's only with her because he sees dollar signs and when she has spent the money she'll be getting back from our divorce he's going to get ghost he has been that way his whole life getting dumb women to fall for his act STBX included.Hopefully she'll wake up B4 he drains her dry... You are so much better off just not even looking back. I know it hurts and its hard not to ask why from time to time but really just dont. Realize that these two people just saved you from a lifetime of misery. You could have had kids with her. That is 18 years of hell with her you don't want. He could still be your best friend and screwing every woman you got with or just even trying to. Sure you were married to her and she was the one you wanted to spend your life with. Its clear she was not. Its also clear you are set to do much better things in life and meet better people. Things that help me move forward. I know my xW is a whore. She cheated on her xB to be with me. I did not even know she had one until it was to late. I do not have any real proof and I sure wished I did but I believe at this point with certain things she is doing she is cheating on the guy she cheated on me with. This woman is meant to live a life of misery. I was stupid and had kids with her. If I had not had kids wow I would have walked away and never looked back. Look at this as a lesson. You learned to keep your eyes open more. You learned not to just blindly trust. You learned to hold people more accountable. They are going to mess up each others lives be thankful its not someone else s life that is innocent. Go have a great time with your new girlfriend and don't look back. Clay 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted December 9, 2013 Share Posted December 9, 2013 After all the **** they put me through they're still together.I know that POS like the back of my hand he's only with her because he sees dollar signs and when she has spent the money she'll be getting back from our divorce he's going to get ghost he has been that way his whole life getting dumb women to fall for his act STBX included.Hopefully she'll wake up B4 he drains her dry... Don't even worry about it. It sounds like you got the better deal with this Sarah girl anyway. She's proud to show you off. Her family likes you, you're having a great time with her.....life is turning out really well for you. You had some pretty crappy stuff done to you, and now look at what's going on! You got a girl that thinks the world of you, wanted to bring you around her folks and I venture to say, she blew your socks off with a little alone time. Who's got the better deal here? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
manticore Posted December 15, 2013 Share Posted December 15, 2013 After all the **** they put me through they're still together.I know that POS like the back of my hand he's only with her because he sees dollar signs and when she has spent the money she'll be getting back from our divorce he's going to get ghost he has been that way his whole life getting dumb women to fall for his act STBX included.Hopefully she'll wake up B4 he drains her dry... don't obsses over it, in cases like yours with double betrayal (wife - bestfriend) many times they keep the "relationship" going, because is a way to justify themselves (something like "ooh we betrayed him but is because we really love ach other"). is stupid because probably both know that is not true but they are feeding each other that crap to justify such disgusting act. If I were you I would have send her already the mail where he says she is a wh*re and that you should not end the friendship for that kind of woman. but I guess in a way letting him exploit her for sex a money is a harder revenge in the long term. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Leaving Posted January 4, 2014 Author Share Posted January 4, 2014 I wanna start off by saying that this scam of a marriage will officially be over next week.:D:D:D:D A couple of days ago I got a call from my STBX mom stating that her daughter life is going down in flames fast she told me she thinks her daughter is doing some type of drugs because she's losing weight,Always in a bad mood.partying and club hopping Asking for money all the time she even inform me that money has been going missing lately.I told her mother that I thinks she still in contact with That POS and that he's also is a heavy cocaine user and guess what she starts blaming me saying it's my fault I brought that trouble in her life.She also told me her life would've been better off if she would have never met me in the first place.Guess she needs someone to blame other than herself. When I first joined loveshacked I was at one of the lowest points of my life but now I've someone in my life who listens someone who makes me laugh someone who made sure I wasn't alone for the holidays and so many other things that would take days to explain we grow closer each day. I've also volunteered at the highschool I graduated from to help start a music program for talented pupils that goes there(Putting my Music Degree to good use) I have already claimed that 2014 is going to be a good year Happy New To All . 7 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Leaving Posted January 4, 2014 Author Share Posted January 4, 2014 Don't even worry about it. It sounds like you got the better deal with this Sarah girl anyway. She's proud to show you off. Her family likes you, you're having a great time with her.....life is turning out really well for you. You had some pretty crappy stuff done to you, and now look at what's going on! You got a girl that thinks the world of you, wanted to bring you around her folks and I venture to say, she blew your socks off with a little alone time. Who's got the better deal here? I agree 1000000% Link to post Share on other sites
aliveagain Posted January 4, 2014 Share Posted January 4, 2014 (edited) Leaving, you've got to give your soon to be ex wife some credit. She's had 176,398 views on CheaterVille and has a 4 star cheater ranking. She has the same number of stars as some well known masters of infidelity, actress Claire Danes, playmate Kendra Wilkinson and former Governor Eliot Spitzer, she's right up there with them. That's got to mean something right? Edited January 4, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Leaving Posted January 4, 2014 Author Share Posted January 4, 2014 (edited) Leaving, you've got to give your soon to be ex wife some credit. She's had 176,398 views on CheaterVille and has a 4 star cheater ranking. She has the same number of stars as some well known masters of infidelity, actress Claire Danes, playmate Kendra Wilkinson and former Governor Eliot Spitzer, she's right up there with them. That's got to mean something right? Yea when it comes to cheating she's in a class with some of the best:lmao: Edited January 4, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator 5 Link to post Share on other sites
sidney2718 Posted January 5, 2014 Share Posted January 5, 2014 I wanna start off by saying that this scam of a marriage will officially be over next week.:D:D:D:D A couple of days ago I got a call from my STBX mom stating that her daughter life is going down in flames fast she told me she thinks her daughter is doing some type of drugs because she's losing weight,Always in a bad mood.partying and club hopping Asking for money all the time she even inform me that money has been going missing lately.I told her mother that I thinks she still in contact with That POS and that he's also is a heavy cocaine user and guess what she starts blaming me saying it's my fault I brought that trouble in her life.She also told me her life would've been better off if she would have never met me in the first place.Guess she needs someone to blame other than herself. When I first joined loveshacked I was at one of the lowest points of my life but now I've someone in my life who listens someone who makes me laugh someone who made sure I wasn't alone for the holidays and so many other things that would take days to explain we grow closer each day. I've also volunteered at the highschool I graduated from to help start a music program for talented pupils that goes there(Putting my Music Degree to good use) I have already claimed that 2014 is going to be a good year Happy New To All . I'm happy for you. Don't worry about your soon to be xMIL. You didn't make her daughter cheat. Worse, I'm sure your STBXW already knew about some of your ex-buddy's habits from you. Put your head up high and smile. Life is going to get lots better very soon! And let us know when the divorce is final! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Leaving Posted January 9, 2014 Author Share Posted January 9, 2014 My Marriage is finally over.... 6 Link to post Share on other sites
Clay Posted January 9, 2014 Share Posted January 9, 2014 Congrats. When mine ended it was like one of the best feelings I have had in my life. I know it sucks that it went down the way it did but you are free now. Enjoy your life and make the best of it. Clay Link to post Share on other sites
peruano99 Posted January 9, 2014 Share Posted January 9, 2014 I wanna start off by saying that this scam of a marriage will officially be over next week.:D:D:D:D A couple of days ago I got a call from my STBX mom stating that her daughter life is going down in flames fast she told me she thinks her daughter is doing some type of drugs because she's losing weight,Always in a bad mood.partying and club hopping Asking for money all the time she even inform me that money has been going missing lately.I told her mother that I thinks she still in contact with That POS and that he's also is a heavy cocaine user and guess what she starts blaming me saying it's my fault I brought that trouble in her life.She also told me her life would've been better off if she would have never met me in the first place.Guess she needs someone to blame other than herself. When I first joined loveshacked I was at one of the lowest points of my life but now I've someone in my life who listens someone who makes me laugh someone who made sure I wasn't alone for the holidays and so many other things that would take days to explain we grow closer each day. I've also volunteered at the highschool I graduated from to help start a music program for talented pupils that goes there(Putting my Music Degree to good use) I have already claimed that 2014 is going to be a good year Happy New To All . Like mother like daughter. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
MrMeh Posted January 9, 2014 Share Posted January 9, 2014 And it just took 94 posts! Haha! Congrats! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Leaving Posted July 23, 2014 Author Share Posted July 23, 2014 Hello loveshack, It has been a little over a year since I first found out my Ex-wife and Ex-Best friend was having an affair and in that year a lot has happen. Firstly I divorce that cheating whore and moved on got my life together. In March I enrolled in online schooling to better my career. A month later I quit smoking weed altogether, started working out regularly. I’ve been seeing a shrink twice a month to help me deal with some issues I been trying to deal with on my own. Sarah the love of my life her and I grow closer every day and a couple of weeks ago we got the good news that we’re expecting a child. I’ve learned that life happens fast and sometimes it’ll throw us a curve ball and what makes us stronger is how we handle that curve ball. 9 Link to post Share on other sites
Clay Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 That is excellent news. Ever hear if your ex is still seeing your xfriend? Will you and Sarah get married ? Any talk of that ? Clay Link to post Share on other sites
HereNorThere Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 Congratulations! Not on on the divorce, but on realizing that your own self worth. Unfortunately, most people do not feel they can do better than a cheater and continue to stay only to be tormented. Get out there and get yours, son! Find a baaaaad one (or two) and never, ever, ever, ever trust one of your guy friends anywhere around one of your girls. Too many people here have made that mistake. I don't care what anyone else tells you, learn this lesson. Link to post Share on other sites
harrybrown Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 Glad that you came out of the horrible betrayal as well as you did. Hope that your new family brings happiness and peace. Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 Congratulations on both, your divorce and your restart. Like a Phoenix from the ashes, as they say. Link to post Share on other sites
aliveagain Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 Through every storm the sun will shine, congratulations, what an amazing turn of events. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Leaving Posted July 25, 2014 Author Share Posted July 25, 2014 (edited) That is excellent news. Ever hear if your ex is still seeing your xfriend? Will you and Sarah get married ? Any talk of that ? Clay From what I’m hearing from friends who we both know Xfriend and her got a place together (I’m assuming with the money she got back from the divorce) shacked up for a little while and then he went back to his ex for a while( I’m assuming the money had dried up) She got kicked out (couldn’t afford the bills I guess) moved back in with her folks, but then gets a job at Walmart and now he’s back in the picture(Those same friends say he’s still sleeping with his Ex and even steals money from her to cater to their habit) she should’ve known what kind a person he was when he slept with his best friend wife ( Before the affair he was more like a brother to me him and his parents I considered family). For me and Sarah we have agreed to wait a year and half before we discuss marriage because she understands that I just got a divorce not even a year ago and she’s giving me time to get myself together. We are happy in love and can’t wait to raise our beautiful child together and as of right now I’m going to rent my house out (when time is right I’m going to sell it) moving in with her in August until we find a place for ourselves I like her place a lot but she says it’s too small and cramped to raise a child. Edited July 25, 2014 by Leaving Link to post Share on other sites
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