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Why can't I stop thinking about him?


Kristine

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This is making me crazy. We haven't done anything aside from flirting. But I can't get him out of my mind. My friend wants us to go to karoke again Saturday. Maybe she sees something I don't, or else is having fun at my expense. I've never felt this crazed about a guy EVER! There are things about him I don't like (like he smokes), yet I still can't get him out of my head. I want to kiss him but not sleep with him. I mostly want to have an actual conversation with him. What is this?

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Agreed. My thought is that you are tensed in your mind -- tension/forbidden fruit, etc., lead to passion, which leads to mistakes. Don't just tell yourself that you can't have anything with him, don't deny your feelings. Figure out what they are and why and keep it balanced and rational.

 

That will minimize acting out of passion and without reason

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