Not sure if her tweet was aimed at me/should I give up talking to her?

[fmfan08]

I've been talking to this girl over a distance, more of a penpal sort of thing and we both found each other attractive, got to know each other, etc. But she's been acting a bit off with me lately..

 

Here was the conversation http://oi39.tinypic.com/30ml1s1.jpg

 

But I noticed after I told her I was only teasing her (which as at 11pm), the following morning at around 9, she tweeted ""Haven't you f*cked off yet? #wanker".

 

I'm just wondering, would this be aimed at me? She ended up texting two days later (as it carries on).

 

Lately, I asked if something was bothering her? I didn't get a reply to the text, so a day after I inboxed her on Facebook asking if I've done anything wrong, and that I "seem to be getting the impression that you don't want me talking to you any more" . It says she's seen the message, but still no reply.

 

Should I let things rest and go no contact? I feel like it's a mess and that I should just block her instead, so it at least makes me feel happier.

 

What's the best course of action? Thanks

[fmfan08]

I ended up saying "Anyway, I've done what I can to talk to you and be friendly. I'll back off now, you know where I am if you ever want to speak. Hope things go great for you in the future." but I think this was a bad idea.

 

I feel like I've made myself look needy, but I wanted to show to her that my life isn't going to stop and that she knows where I am if she wants to talk.

 

Even if she does get talking to me again, it's a girl I have only spoken to a few times on the phone and mostly messages so no loss. I'm just angry I wasted time on this situation.

 

If she ever does want to talk to me though, at least I've told her that she knows where I am and not acted angry about it, I acted calm and rational instead. May have acted needy, but I won't be contacting her again now the ball is in her court.

 

Now I'm going to focus on the other exciting things in my life and update my Facebook about how I am enjoying myself, then at least she can clearly see that I'm not bothered.

[ExpatInItaly]

Yes, you've done all you can do now. Focus on the exciting things in your life for your sake, not only to show her that you don't need her. You may in fact see this is a silver lining someday soon when you meet someone who is genuinely interested in you and who would love to keep in regular contact with you!

[Syconort]

I'm in a very similar situation. Frequent contact but goes dead at talk of exchanging numbers or meeting up. She does seem quite reserved though.

 

I'm about to do the same thing -- back off and say I'm here if she wants to talk. No chance in hell am I going to chase a girl ever again. People who lead you into that trap tend to play nothing but head games anyway.