leon23 Posted September 21, 2013 Share Posted September 21, 2013 My girlfriends and i have a debate on whether or not we would believe an anon tip -telling us our BF was cheating. The BF deserves the benefit of the doubt but I also wonder who would actually take the time out of their day to write something to you about a cheating BF...so there must be some truth? Especially if you don't have any enemies... Link to post Share on other sites
HokeyReligions Posted September 21, 2013 Share Posted September 21, 2013 No. I wouldn't believe it. If I was in a relationship where I did not trust my bf completely I would ask him directly if he was cheating. Link to post Share on other sites
darkmoon Posted September 21, 2013 Share Posted September 21, 2013 no proof, no truth, I would think that the person had the motive to break us up and date one of us, or is sick, or likes pranks 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author leon23 Posted September 21, 2013 Author Share Posted September 21, 2013 Yeah, I guess I would expect that kind of behavior from girls/boys in high school or jr. high. I have a hard time believing people in their 30's would do something like that i.e. pranking or intentionally trying to break people up. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Space Ritual Posted September 21, 2013 Share Posted September 21, 2013 My girlfriends and i have a debate on whether or not we would believe an anon tip -telling us our BF was cheating. The BF deserves the benefit of the doubt but I also wonder who would actually take the time out of their day to write something to you about a cheating BF...so there must be some truth? Especially if you don't have any enemies... I would be skeptical unless someone provided proof (i.e. copies of emails, chats, texts or pics). That being said i believe everyone has at least one enemy in this world, for none of us are liked by every person we meet and vice versa. People can dig up reasons to not like somebody, from the way they talk, to how they look at somebody in passing all the way to the color of their skin. So again, unless someone has provided some sort of proof that is indisputable, I would be skeptical. Link to post Share on other sites
crederer Posted September 22, 2013 Share Posted September 22, 2013 I found out from a girl I didn't know that my gf was cheating on me with her boyfriend and she has e-mails supporting it. I didn't bother asking for the e-mails because I found it hard to believe a stranger would make this up. It turned out it was in fact true. Link to post Share on other sites
Author leon23 Posted September 22, 2013 Author Share Posted September 22, 2013 I found out from a girl I didn't know that my gf was cheating on me with her boyfriend and she has e-mails supporting it. I didn't bother asking for the e-mails because I found it hard to believe a stranger would make this up. It turned out it was in fact true. Ughh, I'm sorry, but that's to my point, I would find it very strange for someone to just make up something like that, I guess I expect some level of human decency from people that they would not be sh*t starters for no reason. Link to post Share on other sites
Author leon23 Posted September 22, 2013 Author Share Posted September 22, 2013 You'd be surprised how many messed up people are there. So, I wouldn't believe it [automatically] unless it comes with some sort of proof. I see your point. Link to post Share on other sites
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