jimtash Posted November 24, 2004 Share Posted November 24, 2004 I have posted about this relationship I am having with this woman here before, but here is the lowdown. We broke up last year and in May of this year, she contacted me after about 5 months of not seeing or speaking to each other. She was seeing someone else at the time but he was out of town and gone til the end of the year and around August we got back together and started living with each other. October rolls around and he calls her and that's when things start going downhill and two weeks later she's gone. Two weeks later we are back together and two weeks after that we are seperated again. Now she says that she wasn't happy and that she felt that what we had wasn't what she wanted even though we never argued, had fun and were content with each other. She has even made it quite clear that she isn't even willing to come back or even give us another chance. What I do know is that before he called, everything was great and we were both very happy and when I ask her what she wasn't happy about, she can't give me a straight answer. It's either I don't know or some other excuse but then I ask her if he didn't call in October would we still be together and she doesn't even reply. In fact, she now states that she doesn't want a relationship with anyone and has no plans to live with another man anytime soon and I ask her is that because when you were living with me, you had a man that loved you and a house to stay in and no bills to pay and everything was going smooth or is it your own self doubt or inability to make a decision and stick with it? Again, no straight answer. Now she even says that she doesn't want to complicate things and I'm sitting here asking myself what in the hell is she talking about. Things got complicated in May when she decided to contact me and she now says she even regrets that. The worst part about this is that we are co-workers and I can't even work with her anymore. It's so hard to sit there and look at someone you love and know that deep down inside this should not be happening. We were so great together but now we can't even talk and that hurts like hell. I miss her so much and I didn't do a damn thing to lose her. She even goes so far to say that it's her and not me that's causing her to do this. Why? Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Spock Posted November 24, 2004 Share Posted November 24, 2004 She sounds like a bit of a dipsh*t. PLEASE consider yourself lucky you didn't marry her. It sounds to me like she was using you, when she was down and lonely and it was conveinient for her to be with you. Now, it's not convienient so she's moved on. You should do the same, and not waste one more minute moping about a b*tch who isn't as crazy about you as you are her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author jimtash Posted November 24, 2004 Author Share Posted November 24, 2004 She still says she loves me but I sit here and think if she really did, would we be going through this? It sucks to think that what we had meant nothing to her because that's how it feels right now and I'm just amazed how quickly it came to an end. I never had a fighting chance with her after that first phone call in October. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Spock Posted November 24, 2004 Share Posted November 24, 2004 I'm sure she loves you, like she loves kittens and puppies-but you want, you NEED someone who's IN love with you. Why are you fighting so hard for something that's so obviously not worth your time? I can tell you that by starting to date and leading an active happy life you'll have the last laugh. Remember looking good is the best revenge. Now get out there and look good. And ignore her. Link to post Share on other sites
Weird Posted November 24, 2004 Share Posted November 24, 2004 What a crazy broad. I think you need to just accept the fact she is crazy and not worth your time and be thankful you aren't with her psycho personality. Link to post Share on other sites
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