I made out with my bf's friend on a truth or dare game

[Misfortune]

Well I have another life example and it's regarding one of my father's closest friend. That friend was a player, got involved with several married women and went clubbing a lot but he was a great friend toward my father and would treat us all good. On my 16th birthday, he also came with a present. That guy would also send money to his elderly parents, was a great son to them.

 

My point is just because someone isn't good to a partner doesn't mean they're going to be bad with everyone else.

 

I know, I see the 2facedness in abusive relationships all the time. My point is the ones who are getting the good side, don't say anything/care about what's happening to the people experiencing the bad, because it isn't them.

[jimmytwowheels]

Young people these days...I mean I'm not old myself, I'm in my mid 20s, but come on. Damn threads like this make me go home and kiss my gf and tell her how much I appreciate her. So something good did come out of this abortion of a story. Missy - you are not a bad person like some people are saying. You A) are wildly immature, which is normal and B) obviously don't care about him that much.

[atreides]

Young people these days...I mean I'm not old myself, I'm in my mid 20s, but come on. Damn threads like this make me go home and kiss my gf and tell her how much I appreciate her. So something good did come out of this abortion of a story. Missy - you are not a bad person like some people are saying. You A) are wildly immature, which is normal and B) obviously don't care about him that much.

 

agreed, let's hope she doesn't learn the same lesson but on the other side of the coin.

[crederer]

Dear lord, you're really stupid for such a smart girl.....