Think my girlfriend's friends will give me another chance?

[joekablo]

Hi, so I'm new to pretty much all of this forum posting but I think I get the idea! I may be in a bit of a situation here.

 

So my girlfriend and I have been dating for 1,5 years. We know eachother well, most oftenly have a great time together literally laughing our (specially hers) asses off and just being really fun and awesome. Thing is, things tend to go bad, and I mean BAD sometimes. Most of the time it's her just being her emotional, insecure self. She claims to be having trust issues and all that jazz because her ex cheated on her, but she cheated BIG TIME on that very same boyfriend and the one before that! So I do't take that all too seriously. It takes two to tango of course; my need for partying and doing stupid awesome guy stuff and not being serious triggers just that. Most of the time I just stay realistic and rational, show her how silly her behavior is, or just ignore it, give her a hug and make her laugh again.

 

When I go drinking however, I tend to lose my fun-loving and carefree attitude in the blink of an eye, but somehow ONLY when it comes to my girlfriend! Sometimes when I drink I'll be sweet like a puppy (which I normally never am), and other times I turn into this goodfornothing grouch to her. Any advice on how I can just be myself even when drunk!? It only happens when I'm with her!

 

So last night I went partying again, and the sweet side in me just came up again, so I decided to call and sweet talk my girlfriend who went drinking as well. Thing is, she pressed my call away (I can tell because it only dialed twice) and hung up on me. So I went to whatsapp and checked if she was online. She was, so I texted her. She didn't answer, so I called again, this time her cell was off! I got pissed, told my friend and he (the emotional wreck himself) told me we should go check it out. I refused, be he was the driver that night, and he just drove there. My girlfriend and her friends were hanging outside the cafe on the parking lot, and my friend drove like an idiot and scared them. As soon as I got out, I wasn't pissed anymore, but couldn't be my happy self either. I acted really cold, talked to her for like 10 seconds and went inside of the cafe. This was the first time this particular group of friends had seen me, and I was behaving very contradictionally to what my girlfriend had been telling them all night.

 

Now ashamed of what had happened, I want to recover my girlfriend's image to her friends, and my own of course. How do I do this!? And how bad is it, the damage of my being cold to my girlfriend in front of her friends and leaving a bad impression? Could it at least have had SOME sort of charm on them? Like being a badass or something lol. I already made things right with my girl.I was thinking joining their table next time she goes drinking with them, being them two bottles of whine and making them all laugh? How´s that?