Author Jiminy Cricket Posted September 27, 2013 Author Share Posted September 27, 2013 This is so frustrating lol. Again, the part in bold. You WANT to reach out to her because you WANT her to change and you WANT to get back together. All these WANTS wont turn out into ANYTHING. I assure you of this. If you know she is crazy and know she is abusive and know you dont want her in your life, THEN WHY IS THIS STILL AN ISSUE?!?!? The sad reality is you like this in a way because she is still in your life if, at the worst, she is harassing you. You dont seem to care at all. Therefore, that tells me that either you keep holding on to this assassin hope that she is going to change and come back OR you dont like the feeling of being alone/ego so you feel all that will change back if SHE comes back. It wont. don't get so butthurt. i said i "feel" like....doesn't mean i'm gonna do sh*t. i'm just using this forum to vent, and act out scenarios rather than doing them in real life. its better i say these things than do them, so don't trip. this turmoil i'm having comes from me thinking with my heart, not my mind. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jiminy Cricket Posted September 27, 2013 Author Share Posted September 27, 2013 She never... told.... you... why. the universe might be doing you a favor by keeping this girl away, man. Seriously consider the chance to build yourself up better than ever away from this bad news. I use android, no idea of imessage but cant you somehow delete the app or something? Otherwise, threaten to go to the police. And listen, no matter what you did.... how bad it was in the relationship, if it didn't require police intervention at the moment (say you hit her or something) it's said and done. You don't need to be berated or attacked for it. the consequence is the relationship being over. But you don't deserve the grief of being told constantly what you did wrong over and over again and - you guessed it - neither does she. So stop. it's not only telling her why the relationship failed, i know what you're trying to say the relationship is over, and whats done is done. but i'm talking about the now, she's still being an emotional bully as when we were still together. i'm not going to threaten her with the police, because i don't want to stoop down to her level. i'm going to be passive aggressive and ignore her, like ppl been saying, she'll go away if i do. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted September 27, 2013 Share Posted September 27, 2013 Wow, this thread exploded. Link to post Share on other sites
LostOne1 Posted September 27, 2013 Share Posted September 27, 2013 it's not only telling her why the relationship failed, i know what you're trying to say the relationship is over, and whats done is done. but i'm talking about the now, she's still being an emotional bully as when we were still together. i'm not going to threaten her with the police, because i don't want to stoop down to her level. i'm going to be passive aggressive and ignore her, like ppl been saying, she'll go away if i do. Good for you man. Just ignore and sooner or later she will get the message. Being aggressive gets people no where... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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