Forced to be the dumper

[Confusedbeyondbelief]

I'm not totally clueless or blind. But I really do believe it is her and that she just wants him back. I'm. It sure why she would be doing it after all of this time,but maybe she just misses him and can't get over him?

 

The two if us are so good together, amid really think we will work through everything and be in it for the long haul.

 

Some think this relationship is a rebound for him. But they don't realize what he says to me, how good he treats me, or the undeniable passion he has for us. The chemistry is amazing, and he's a good guy that's always treated me great and with respect.

 

I don't think I am a rebound. Think the other girl was, and now he wants a relationship with me. Why do people think I'm so wrong for thinking that?

[KatZee]

You're just making excuses for him.

 

Answer the question. How do you think it's possible she knows personal details about your life?

[Confusedbeyondbelief]

I don't think I'm making excuses. I'm trying to think about it rationally, without the emotion that I initially had when this person contacted me and I confronted him.

 

I think maybe she's based some of the personal details provided off of things he must have said to her in the past when they've hung out. That's possible, right?

[Confusedbeyondbelief]

Any other perspectives or insights? Especially about my thoughts on whether she was, I am, or we both are rebounds?

 

I know my thought process may be hard to understand, but I really am trying to work through this. And hearing all of your input really does help me.

[Sparkle304]

I'm not sure why you're seeking more responses. There are three pages of of opinions on your situation and all the postings state that this guy is lying and you're pretending that all is well in your relationship....

 

If you're looking for us to sugar coat it and lie to you, you've come to the wrong place....