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I'm also going through the same situation, my ex boyfriend broke up to me because he said he was dependent to me and he needs to mature.. We went NC since the break up, it's been 19 days now.. I don't know when can I hear from him again.. My bday is coming up and I wonder if he will greet me..

 

My Ex didn't say **** to me on my bday. So I wouldn't hold any hopes.

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Well got another one. Not really sure what to make of this one. Must be a poem or quote because its in quotations.

 

Text: "love will remember you, and love will remember me, I know it inside my heart, forever will, forever be ours, even if we try to forget, love will remember"

 

I don't know what to make of this anymore. Its almost becoming comical because in the last one it started off One last time text... She's really trying hard now to get me to respond. LOL karma's a biznatch.

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Well got another one. Not really sure what to make of this one. Must be a poem or quote because its in quotations.

 

Text: "love will remember you, and love will remember me, I know it inside my heart, forever will, forever be ours, even if we try to forget, love will remember"

 

I don't know what to make of this anymore. Its almost becoming comical because in the last one it started off One last time text... She's really trying hard now to get me to respond. LOL karma's a biznatch.

 

Selena Gomez ? Love Will Remember Lyrics | Rock Genius

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My Ex didn't say **** to me on my bday. So I wouldn't hold any hopes.

lol. My ex barely wished me happy birthday when we were together (my birthday is in March, so I haven't had my birthday since the break-up yet) , and he only remembered because he saw people posting birthday wishes on my facebook. Now that he no longer has me on his facebook, I doubt he even remembers the date. :rolleyes: I remembered his birthday, but I didn't contact him. Last year on his birthday, I got him a $150 present for which he was utterly ungrateful (and never reciprocated it on my bday).

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Well got another one. Not really sure what to make of this one. Must be a poem or quote because its in quotations.

 

Text: "love will remember you, and love will remember me, I know it inside my heart, forever will, forever be ours, even if we try to forget, love will remember"

 

I don't know what to make of this anymore. Its almost becoming comical because in the last one it started off One last time text... She's really trying hard now to get me to respond. LOL karma's a biznatch.

Mind games. If she's trying to say she has feelings for you, she should woman up and say it. I doubt it very much, though. I think she's playing mind games and trying to make you feel bad for ignoring her. Seriously. I would not respond, or even spend time or energy trying to analyze this any further than that.

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I find this extremely selfish of her. My impression is she is trying to maintain control of the situation by keeping you engaged in this "nostalgic" discourse. No contact all the way, just ignore.

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I find this extremely selfish of her. My impression is she is trying to maintain control of the situation by keeping you engaged in this "nostalgic" discourse. No contact all the way, just ignore.

 

Yea I'm still not responding but I have no idea whats going on. But it does seem like she's wanting to feel better about herself. Yet again these are just texts and can be completely wild. Time will tell her true intentions.

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I see a girl that dumped you........is regretting dumping you, so she texts you.....when you don't respond it gets under her skin so...........she "dumps" you again by saying she doesn't regret it, she needs to be on her own, blah blah blah....then she regrets saying that so she is now texting you a love song.....Do I have it right???

 

You are doing well by not responding!

If she gets serious about you again, you'll see her on your doorstep.

 

Oh its pretty obvious. Kinda sad at the same time.

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I wish my ex apologized like this.

 

Everyone is saying the dumper has a alternative motive.

 

But then again it could just be sincere.

 

I'v wanted to apologize to ex's but I never did. Because, I worried they would think I'm doing it because I want them back.

 

Again, not all dumpers are evil span from hell. They do very ****ty ****, and can be ****ty people. No one is all good and all evil.

 

I'd take it as sincerity... but in the end really did this text give you some peace.

 

Not really right? Just make you reflect no how people are ****ed up.

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I wish my ex apologized like this.

 

Everyone is saying the dumper has a alternative motive.

 

But then again it could just be sincere.

 

I'v wanted to apologize to ex's but I never did. Because, I worried they would think I'm doing it because I want them back.

 

Again, not all dumpers are evil span from hell. They do very ****ty ****, and can be ****ty people. No one is all good and all evil.

 

I'd take it as sincerity... but in the end really did this text give you some peace.

 

Not really right? Just make you reflect no how people are ****ed up.

 

From the kind of person she is... She's trying to say something without actually saying it. Who knows what that is.

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From the kind of person she is... She's trying to say something without actually saying it. Who knows what that is.

 

Yeah, woman normal are like this. Being a chick myself, manipulation is a fresh ticket. ( Don't get all sexiest on me men do some crappy stuff to)

 

I mean you know this person the best. So if this is her style,..

 

well, at lest you get a ****ing response.

 

I mean **** you. My ex never even talked to me. I mean. I read sincerity, and if you can read it like this. and not like a manipulation. Maybe you can sleep better.

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Yeah, woman normal are like this. Being a chick myself, manipulation is a fresh ticket. ( Don't get all sexiest on me men do some crappy stuff to)

 

I mean you know this person the best. So if this is her style,..

 

well, at lest you get a ****ing response.

 

I mean **** you. My ex never even talked to me. I mean. I read sincerity, and if you can read it like this. and not like a manipulation. Maybe you can sleep better.

 

I just want the games to stop. Be a grown woman and tell me what you want... Not all this song lyric, blah blah bull ****.

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Keep NC a little longer, she will keep on texting and eventually will fold and beg you to take her back.

 

Or she will fold and say **** it and move on always regretting, never knowing anything else about you.

 

Wait for a few more texts..the questions is....

 

Do you want her back? Its a simple yes or no.

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Coming from a different point of view (I think). I have done what your ex has been doing. Although I was the one who got dumped but it's because I did something stupid. I told my ex the same things because at that moment it felt like it was genuine but I never begged for him to be back together with me because I knew it was over, it just felt like after what we have grown through together (we were together for 3 years too), doing that wouldn't hurt me or change anything. It felt more like an affirmation of realizations. He talked to me after months of NC but I went NC after that. It's almost 5 months of NC for me now. It's a roller coaster of emotions but I'm glad I'm not where I used to be.

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Keep NC a little longer, she will keep on texting and eventually will fold and beg you to take her back.

 

Or she will fold and say **** it and move on always regretting, never knowing anything else about you.

 

Wait for a few more texts..the questions is....

 

Do you want her back? Its a simple yes or no.

 

I've thought about it and yes I do want her back BUT I know its up to her and I'm not holding on to any hope. I'm going to remain NC and see where that goes.

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Coming from a different point of view (I think). I have done what your ex has been doing. Although I was the one who got dumped but it's because I did something stupid. I told my ex the same things because at that moment it felt like it was genuine but I never begged for him to be back together with me because I knew it was over, it just felt like after what we have grown through together (we were together for 3 years too), doing that wouldn't hurt me or change anything. It felt more like an affirmation of realizations. He talked to me after months of NC but I went NC after that. It's almost 5 months of NC for me now. It's a roller coaster of emotions but I'm glad I'm not where I used to be.

 

It really didn't change anything. Its either you're going to say you want me back or it doesn't matter. I might talk to her in the future but not now. I'm not afraid of talking to her I'm afraid of the hurt that might come along with it.

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it really didn't change anything. its either you're going to say you want me back or it doesn't matter. i might talk to her in the future but not now. I'm not afraid of talking to her i'm afraid of the hurt that might come along with it.

 

amen!!!!!!

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Well found out some new info. NO i did NOT snoop around. My mother said she was talking to my ex last week and my ex said that she still loves me, hates that I'm ignoring her, and she even admitted crying allot and moping around all day. Thoughts?

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It's called manipulation :). Don't give in, stay strong and figure out what you want.

 

Do you know what exactly you want from her - anything in particular for her to admit or to say? How would things have to change, for the two of you to function?

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Well found out some new info. NO i did NOT snoop around. My mother said she was talking to my ex last week and my ex said that she still loves me, hates that I'm ignoring her, and she even admitted crying allot and moping around all day. Thoughts?

 

Your mother is to be completely trusted and isn't exaggerating?

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Personally, I feel you should make contact with her. She's already put herself out there, and is showing you her vulnerability, and now is the time to act on it.

 

Don't go RUNNING back, but simply waltz back into her head and heart. Reply to her with a simple "Okay," and see how she takes it.

 

You want to take advantage of this situation if you'd like to start something fresh with her. Else, that vulnerable feeling she has will wear off, and you may never get another chance.

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Personally, I feel you should make contact with her. She's already put herself out there, and is showing you her vulnerability, and now is the time to act on it.

 

Don't go RUNNING back, but simply waltz back into her head and heart. Reply to her with a simple "Okay," and see how she takes it.

 

You want to take advantage of this situation if you'd like to start something fresh with her. Else, that vulnerable feeling she has will wear off, and you may never get another chance.

 

I don't know, it's very tricky. Remember, he's not supposed to know this information.

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