maidai Posted September 25, 2013 Share Posted September 25, 2013 (edited) After posting this this morning http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/other-man-woman/427302-dreams and bouncing around with euphoria the most bizarre thing happened this afternoon! After 8 weeks NC with him and 7 weeks of asking his family to respect my request for NC exMM's Aunt calls me out of the blue! I have only ever met her once. This lady is labelled a stirrer and basically the black sheep of the family by the rest of them. She called under the guise of asking if my son would mind doing some building work but very quickly wanted to get into the ins and outs of what happened. I know basically she just wanted the gossip the family possibly would not give her. I remained polite and at first thought I am not answering her questions but then I thought to hell with it I dont owe him anything and am not about to protect him. The only time I had dealings with her before was when she needed something I could help with through work, she thanked me, was appreciative and was lovely to me. I take people on face value not what I am told so saw no reason to be rude or short. I kept my answers short, courteous, unemotional and truthful. I ended the conversation as soon as it did not feel rude to. Just before she went she finished by telling me that any time I wanted to chat she was there and just because of what happened not to think her door was always open to me. I was welcome there anytime. Still its more curtious than the rest of the family who I was closely involved with ever were! His Mother only ever phoned to ask if something she asked me to do was done and never even asked how I was. Needless to say though I wont be taking her up on her offer! The bizarrest question was after I said I dont want to talk about it anymore because I am done.... So you would not have him back in the future then if he comes back? My answer... do I come across as a maschocist? I have come off the phone with a WTF face on I mean seriously WTF! Edited September 25, 2013 by maidai 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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