Would you go back in time to have sex with your spouse/other even if they were young?

[Clockwork]

Okay here me out. I always have kinky fantasies about my wife. I started dating her at 22. But through pictures and such I am still attracted to her when she was a teen. I've fantasized about having sex with her at that age too ( don't worry we have an active sex life). Pictures of her at the beach or on her prom night she was still a virgin, I would have loved to jump her back then.

 

So if it were possible to do this without her having any memory of it (remember the butterfly effect) and you go back to the present time afterwards, would you?

[harrybrown]

No, because you would blow her mind, she would have you arrested and you would be a sex offender for having sex with a minor.

[devilish innocent]

I've had the same fantasy about traveling back in time to be with my husband when he was younger. We've even role played it out together. He used to be really shy about those things, though, so it would be pretty immoral to follow through with it even if it was possible.

[ThomasD]

Are we talking about meeting her as a younger person, or meeting her younger body? And, are you thinking that both of you would be the same (younger) age, or would you, as a 22 year old, meet her as a 17 year old?

 

My wife and I (married 39 yrs) also met when we were both 22. From what I can tell, she developed quite a bit between, say, 16 and 22. Not that she became totally different - what she was at 22 and what she was at 16 are quite consistent with each other - but it took time and life experience for her to develop and mature.

 

If we had been in High School together I may have been drawn to her person as a friend or acquaintance, but not in a strongly romantic or erotic way. At least not any more than many other girls who were the subjects of mild fantasies when I was that age. I doubt that I would have thought seriously of her as a likely life partner. (I didn't begin to have that kind of thought until I loved a girl when we were 18, and the idea was still rather indefinite.)

 

Physically, my wife was somewhat late to develop. I can't imagine my 17-year old self having an irresistible urge to have sex with her. She didn't get a real woman's body until 18 or so. Not that she wasn't attractive, but she didn't fit in with the cultural conditioning that tells people what is supposed to be "sexually attractive". (It wasn't until we were married and started having sex that I figured out most of that "cultural conditioning" was inaccurate, or just plain wrong.) More significantly - if she had been sexually active at that age I doubt that she would have been the same person I loved at 22 and married at 23. (And if I had been active at that age, I don't think she would have been as attracted to me at 22, either.)

[cocorico]

No. He's far more attractive now than when he was young, and TBH so am I.

 

And going back to the days of bad hair, silly clothes and embarrassing lifestyle choices really does not appeal in any way, however good the sex might be.

[Clockwork]

But this is just a one time deal. Your spouse will not have any recollection of the events after they happen, but you get to ravage them during this time. Maybe be the one to pluck their innocence (if you didn't do this). And for arguments sake you can be whatever age you'd like. Just pick a time in your spouse's life where you would like to have jumped their bones, so to speak.

 

I still say my wife's prom night is my pick. She was 18, she went to the Prom with her friends and had a date that eventually ditched her while they were there for his buddies. She was pretty then too, innocent as well at that time. I'd have easily swept in and tried to sweep her off her feet. The dress still fits her and I've had her wear it a couple times, but I'd still love to go back in time.

Edited September 28, 2013 by Clockwork

[taiko]

She wouldn't have been desperate enough in the past. And I would not have seen a possible spouse but just a singular opportunity for a one night stand. it was the time and our prior experiences which made us a match.

 

That said. yes I would like to go back to the time when she first became sexually active

[ThomasD]

. . . you get to ravage them during this time. Maybe be the one to pluck their innocence (if you didn't do this). . . .

Not quite sure what "ravage" means. Don't think I've ever wanted to do that to her, even though we occasionally f****k for the sheer sake of f****ing. Likewise I don't think I've ever wanted to "pluck the innocence" of her, or any other girl. My wife and I willingly and eagerly gave our virginities to each other.

[Clockwork]

Not quite sure what "ravage" means. Don't think I've ever wanted to do that to her, even though we occasionally f****k for the sheer sake of f****ing. Likewise I don't think I've ever wanted to "pluck the innocence" of her, or any other girl. My wife and I willingly and eagerly gave our virginities to each other.

 

Man, have a little sense of fantasy here. This is your wife. Surely you would have still wanted to jump her bones at a time when she was (insert age) right?