Author Sugarkane Posted December 4, 2013 Author Share Posted December 4, 2013 I find it weird to be told to take the high road, in regards to people who see no problem lying, cheating, manipulating in The first place. Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted December 5, 2013 Share Posted December 5, 2013 I thought the title of this thread was self explanatory? It's weird to be cruelly disgarded, told they want to "be single", but then they're in another relationship 5 minutes later. I'm not bitter about anything and everything, but I have regrets about some things. It still feels like NC is being a doormat, when it was ok for them to betray me? I don't know why telling people how you feel, makes you the psycho. I do have personal goals and have achieved a couple of them this year. I just don't post about it. I'm going to put caps lock on with underlining and in bold because its THAT important: GOING ON NO CONTACT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THEM! ZERO! ZLICH! NADA! Also, telling them anything after the fact about how you feel makes you look clingy, desperate, co-dependent, whiny, needy, etc. I've been reading your stuff for awhile now. Does it suck your ex told you stuff about being single and then going after someone else? Yes of course. My ex did the same EXACT thing. Left, said it was temporary, I was the "the one" she loved me more than anything, and there was NO one else and swore on her LIFE. I can imagine you know where I'm going with this? It happens to a LOT of people on here and its cool to get mad and whatever, but you have been stewing on some anger for quite a bit now. Anger will get you nowhere. Grudges will ruin your life and waste time. Somewhere down the line, you will have acceptance....you are not there yet obviously. You just have to see somewhere inbetween this haze that life is much more important than just her. Link to post Share on other sites
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