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:(Hi.I've been w/my bf for almost 6yrs!he's the only person ive Ever been with..the other day i found out that while i was in jail,he cheated on me..as he has in the past.so i was drinking&my friend was pushing me to have some fun with this guy(which happens to be an enemy of my bf&his family already)..&i ended up sleeping with him.the next day his/our entire family&friends found out what i did.his mom&sister say theyre going to tell him if not someone else at visiting if i dont..i also live with them&they dont really want me around anymore so i feel so uncomfortable.im not sure what to do.he will be in shock,heart broken&probably snap out on me&the other guy when he gets out..i want to confess but cant come to do it&am sick to my stomach when im told hes going to find out about this..i feel so ashamed&stupid but he will never believe it was a mistake.the most ive ever done was msg an old friend&he still holds me to it to this day..its not fair but i know i did wrong.i really dont know where to go or what to do in this position b/c i Never thought i would be with another person in my entire life..but i made a mistake.&now im Stuck....HELP me?!

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If this is real I actually feel sorry for you even though you did something horrible (cheat).

 

I guess the best thing I can recommend is first find somewhere else to live. Do you have family you can stay with?

 

 

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Assuming this is for real, why do you want to hold onto a guy who's cheated on you multiple times?

 

 

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You have to tell him at some point because his family will and I'm sure they will do it soon. Yeah, you cheated but then you do it with some guy he and his family are enemies with? You just shot yourself in both feet.

 

Get out of there. If you have family, live with them until you find a place.

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:(Hi.I've been w/my bf for almost 6yrs!he's the only person ive Ever been with..the other day i found out that while i was in jail,he cheated on me..as he has in the past.so i was drinking&my friend was pushing me to have some fun with this guy(which happens to be an enemy of my bf&his family already)..&i ended up sleeping with him.the next day his/our entire family&friends found out what i did.his mom&sister say theyre going to tell him if not someone else at visiting if i dont..i also live with them&they dont really want me around anymore so i feel so uncomfortable.im not sure what to do.he will be in shock,heart broken&probably snap out on me&the other guy when he gets out..i want to confess but cant come to do it&am sick to my stomach when im told hes going to find out about this..i feel so ashamed&stupid but he will never believe it was a mistake.the most ive ever done was msg an old friend&he still holds me to it to this day..its not fair but i know i did wrong.i really dont know where to go or what to do in this position b/c i Never thought i would be with another person in my entire life..but i made a mistake.&now im Stuck....HELP me?!

 

I think pretty much the fact that you live with your BF's parents and did this is pretty rotten. You can justify it all you want, but your best course of action now is to just fess up to him and accept the consequences. I would be looking for a new place to live if I were you, as soon as possible. Blood is generally thicker than water and if you stick around I would be afraid for your personal safety.

 

All actions have a degree of consequences. This was not a mistake, you did it for revenge after discovering your BF cheated on you....So now that you have gotten your revenge, I bet it does not feel as satisfying as you thought is was going to, did it? It never does, it just makes matters worse.

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