am i wrong?

[katrina]

Its all happen yesterday. Me, k,S supposed to meet up with my bestfriend,V at 1p.m sharp. i do not whats the plan like because i am not the planner. as afar as i know, V agreed to sam that she will be coming for the lunch. 3 of us waited for V right in front of the restaurant for 30 mins. and we waited inside the restaurant for an hour. we tried to call her but she won;t pick up any of oour calls. we got worried, i called her hse and inform her bro to get her. even her bro couldnt get. We have no choice but to call her mother as she is not returning of our calls and she is not picking our calls at all. i called her mother and told her everything. to my suprise, her mom doesn know a single thing that she is coming for lunch or going anywhere. her mom got her. we called again to asked if she is okay and stuff. Apparently she is in her college library with her 'college friends'. one of her frens, took her phone and start scolding K and blaming us for calling her mom and just slam the phone. I got angry, i took S's phone and called back i shouted and telling her to bring that B*tch to talk to me. She wouldnt let that B*itch to talk to me.Thus, i just shouted at V.

I won;t make it a big deal if she would just inform us that she is not coming for the lunch. i called back her mom to ensure everything is under control but her told me that she would appreciate it if i wun call her daughter for lunch anymore. After the conversation with her mom, i couldnt take it anymore so i burst into tears right in front of everyone. am i wrong for calling her mom? what should i do now because she is my bestfriend for 7 years. its too hard for me to throw the frienship away just like that. anyone can tell me what can i do?

[gridiron]

Sorry to hear that katrina. Since you are not the planner, did one of the three of you know that she was definitely supposed to go to lunch? If so, then it was clearly irresponsible for your best friend to not even call you or whoever she originally told that she would be there.

 

Just call your best friend and explain that you were concerned about her safety, since she is your best friend. Tell her you not only waited an hour and a half, but tried other ways to get a hold of her first, and calling her mom was just a last resort because at that time, you were really worried. Say that you didn't mean to worry her mom unduly, just was really concerned. And then when you guys were scolded for showing concern for her, you just lost it.

 

If she can't realize how wrong she was and how dumb the person who griped at you guys for calling her mom was, then she does not deserve to be your best friend.