BellaB Posted September 28, 2013 Share Posted September 28, 2013 My boyfriend's family and his mother do not want us together because they like his former GF who they still keep in communication with and he left her to be with me. Since then, the whole family hated me because of it. Today, his former GF and his mother went out for drinks and for his mother to see his daughter and the ex GF must have added some things that I supposedly said because today his mother posted a status about me on FB using my name in it. She claimed that if something happened to her grandchildren, that's my a--. I don't even know what she is talking about b/c I never said I would do anything to my BF or his children so I don't know where this came from. I never even met his mother because of the drama surrounding their breakup so I don't see how someone can just jump to conclusions like that. The sad part is that I can't even defend myself from these lies because his mother and I do not have a relationship at all. Nobody wants to hear me out or anything. I love my BF very much and he loves me too and breaking up because of them is not an option. I just want to know, what is the best way to protect myself from the lies his baby mama tells his mother about me, because one day I do want to be able to come around his family if I have to. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted September 28, 2013 Share Posted September 28, 2013 The ex is the mom of his children, yes? If this is the case, then of course your bf's mom is going to spend time with her as she is the kids grandmother. You get no say in that nor should you try to prevent that from happening. She will be around in your lives forever because of the children your bf and her share. How long have you two been together? how long ago did he and the ex end things? Link to post Share on other sites
Tayla Posted September 28, 2013 Share Posted September 28, 2013 Duplicate post by OP. She has a history with a married man...only less then a month ago. Would probably be wise for the OP to step away from relations entirely til she learns to be independent and loving to herself.... Link to post Share on other sites
Eggplant Posted September 28, 2013 Share Posted September 28, 2013 OP, before you came along, this man was together with the mother of his children. They weren't officially married, but they were a united family, which is what children need. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted September 28, 2013 Share Posted September 28, 2013 I went back and read your other thread. Okay, my advice still stands. You've been with him for a month and he is far from done with the mother of children. He isn't yours, never was. And she has been a big part of his life, as well as his family's life as well so for you to expect or hope to be accepted into his family so soon when he is still 'with' his partner, is all on you. Back off and focus on your own life and let him live his. If you stay, you'll get more hurt. Link to post Share on other sites
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