body language?

[urbsroma]

I have gone on two dates with this woman and I am unsure if a third is in the offing in large part because of her confusing body language. Here is the background: the first date was set for a Wednesday; we met at a local bar for a drink and it was going well so we went from the bar to a restaurant. The conversation was easy and wide ranging; I made her laugh a lot. The date started around 6:30 and ended close to 10:00. I walked her to her car. When we arrived we agreed we both had a fun time and should plan another date. But then: she crossed her arms across her chest while talking and did not give any indications of a goodnight hug, let alone kiss. I set up the second date--via text--for that Saturday. I decided to switch up the type of date while still finding a venue that would allow us to talk more. I chose a Major League Baseball game, since we both acknowledge our interest in sports. Since we are both transplants to our current city we did not have any allegiance to the team, which would allow more time to talk. I picked her up and we went to the stadium. Just like the first date I felt immediate chemistry and we talked easily throughout the game with very few silent pauses. Now baseball games can last a long time--this one clocked in around 3:30. In addition it wasn't very competitive. I check at one point if she wanted to leave early, but she said she was happy to stay through the whole game. After the game, I suggested we go check out a few art deco buildings downtown. She was game. All told we spent over 5 hours together. I drove her back to her car, which she had parked at my apartment. We agreed (again) that we both had a fun time and I hinted at trying to get together sometime the following week. She seemed interested and said she would let me know about her schedule (she is a medical resident and was switching rotations). But once again, she gave no body language sign that I should go in for a kiss or a hug; instead she got out of the car and I was just left sitting there wondering if I should get out or not. During the date I initiated some physical contact--touching her arm when talking, touching her back when looking to get a view of some art-deco feature and I did not feel like that made her uncomfortable.

 

What do you make of this? Is she trying to subtle tell me she isnt interested? Both dates went so well in terms of conversation and general chemistry, I am quite confused about her body language. This all only happened yesterday, but I am unsure if/when I should contact her again. Should I wait for her to call/text me? I am really over thinking this thing, I am sure, but this is the first date in a long time where I have felt a lot of chemistry.

 

Any advice would be appreciated!