Luna33 Posted September 30, 2013 Share Posted September 30, 2013 (edited) Hi, everyone! I really need some advices about this, since I'm feeling very confused and kinda hurt: I met this guy a few years ago and there had always been attraction between us, but it was four months ago that we started dating... okay, it's difficult to describe this "dating" because we're like friends with benefits, we shared kisses everytime we saw each other and used to text all the time. So, we started to get involved, he even mentioned that was falling for me, loved the time we spent together and was considering to have a serious relationship with me. Recently, we had sex for the first time (it wasn't what I expected and also felt kinda weird), to make things more complicated, right after sex we talked about our feelings for each other (which made me feel more weird). Now, he's texting me every three or two days not everyday like before, it's just a short and casual chat then doesn't text back, though he's still online. I try to remain calm, not to look clingy or needy, but I'm not quiet sure what to do... I feel like he's pulling away after our emotional talk or either testing me to see how I respond because I rarely text him first (he often complained abut this). Maybe he thinks he opened up and I'm not interested? He said he's the type of person who tends to hide emotions, the same as me... or just wanted sex?... Should I text him more or let things just fizzle out? What should I say to show my feelings or just remain friendly to not make him feel uncomfortable? Too much questions, too much confusion... I'll appreciate your help, thanks in advance! Edited September 30, 2013 by Luna33 Link to post Share on other sites
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