feelings786 Posted November 29, 2004 Share Posted November 29, 2004 What do you think I should do? It's been about eleven months since I broke up with my ex-boyfriend. We have managed to become friends now however, upon our break-up I had fallen in love with him and never told him this. Well, I have finally expressed my feelings towards him. I knew he didn't have the same feelings for me but I still went ahead and told him how I felt. I think what hurt me the most was not that he didn't have feelings for me but that he said nothing to me on the phone. He remained silent and said nothing. He said that he still wanted to talk to me but who knows. My ex is the type of guy that is really shy and it's hard for him to express his own feelings. Do you think that I will ever hear from him again? Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted November 29, 2004 Share Posted November 29, 2004 Yeah you will probably hear from him again.. it just may not be as soon as you might like. It sounds like this expression of Love made him feel uncomfortable and he really didn't know what to say... Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted November 29, 2004 Share Posted November 29, 2004 This is EXACTLY why I always say you should not stay friends with an ex. Usuaully one or the other party still wants to be together. Link to post Share on other sites
Author feelings786 Posted November 29, 2004 Author Share Posted November 29, 2004 Thanks for the reply Merin. I guess you are right. It's been a week since I have talked to him. Maybe he was shocked? Who knows? All I know is that I got it out in the open and it feels good to get something like that off my chest. I have been waiting for so long. He's probably moved on and found someone else but I wish he would have just said right then a there that he atleast cared about me but wanted to be friends or something like that...the silence kindof left me hanging! Link to post Share on other sites
snipit3172 Posted November 29, 2004 Share Posted November 29, 2004 hopefully you will hear of him it probably took him by suprise and he needs time to think about it if he does not feel like that and just wants to be friends then friendships with exes do work i have been really good friends with an ex of mine for over 18 months we are always there for each other and he is my best friend as i am his it can work Link to post Share on other sites
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