loveweary11 Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 (edited) A tinder match is meaningless in of itself. Just throwing it out there. Correct. But nearly every one (except one scam) turned into a date.... in hours. Yes, they have the attention span of a gnat, but so do women you meet any other way in nyc. Edited August 17, 2015 by loveweary11 1 Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 I don't know. I honestly didn't look at any ages at all and made a point of doing that, while trying to pick older ones visually. If most of your picks matched, obviously you failed in your effort to pick older women. No mystery here! Link to post Share on other sites
loveweary11 Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 If most of your picks matched, obviously you failed in your effort to pick older women. No mystery here! Wait... what? If my picks matched, then i faield to pick older women??? Wouldn't older women be easier to match since the young, hot ones can get basically any man they desire? The logic of your post is escaping me. Link to post Share on other sites
Keenly Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 Note: In NYC, anyway. Results vary dramatically based on location. They certainly do. I live in a city where all my options are pretty much cookie cutter matches. Link to post Share on other sites
HereNorThere Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 So did you type that in an airport restroom stall while waiting for the next hook-up to arrive? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BlueIris Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 Yes, they have the attention span of a gnat, but so do women you meet any other way in nyc. That's not true. Convenient to tell yourself, but not true. I've noticed that you mock and deride these women you date for behaviors you yourself have. Think about starting counseling. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
HereNorThere Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 Keep it wrapped up, homie. Grindr/Tindr has been single handedly responsible for a MAJOR increase in STDS. Some of these diseases we almost totally annihilated until hookup apps were available. It won't help you from getting herpes, but at least you might prevent aids. You may also want to talk to your doctor about Truveda. Tinder and hookup apps blamed for rise in STDs - May. 26, 2015 Is Tinder Responsible for the Increase of STD Cases? : LIVING HEALTHY : Youth Health Magzine 2 Link to post Share on other sites
loveweary11 Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 That's not true. Convenient to tell yourself, but not true. I've noticed that you mock and deride these women you date for behaviors you yourself have. Think about starting counseling. We men think this, thus it's true. :lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
HereNorThere Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 I suspect the women on Tinder are just as flakey as those on any other dating site or app, if not more so. OLD seems to attract women with short attention spans. If you don't give them butterflies right away, they next you. Tinder is not a dating app. Grindr/Tindr are hookup apps. There's a HUGE difference. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
loveweary11 Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 Tinder is not a dating app. Grindr/Tindr are hookup apps. There's a HUGE difference. I'm using it as a dating app though. Not going with the trend. Making actual dates. Maybe that helps one stand out there. I did have one unmatch me because I wanted to meet up for coffee or whatever amd wouldn't just hook up that night Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 Wait... what? If my picks matched, then i faield to pick older women??? Wouldn't older women be easier to match since the young, hot ones can get basically any man they desire? The logic of your post is escaping me. I'm saying you obviously didn't pick older women if most of your picks matched and most are college aged. So if you were trying to choose older women visually, you failed. You chose college aged women, and that's why you have college aged matches. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
RecentChange Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 (edited) My bother in law - 28 years old, fit, cute - pulls a RIDICULOUS amount of tail from Tinder. (we are in the SF Bay Area) And a lot of these girls are young and good looking - he seems to have a thing for blonds and Asians... Yeah, I don't know if you will find the love of your life on Tinder - but he is newly single, and if you are just looking for a "good time" he seems to find plenty of that. And he goes on "dates" with them - downtown, dinner etc.... they just usually end up in his bed that night. Oh and on a side note, its always awkward when these "Tinder girls" try to introduce themselves to me.... introduce yourself, I don't need your name... there will be a new one tomorrow (bro in law is renting our extra bedroom - so I am privy to the "walk of shame" in the am) Edited August 17, 2015 by RecentChange 1 Link to post Share on other sites
HereNorThere Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 (edited) I'm using it as a dating app though. Not going with the trend. Making actual dates. Maybe that helps one stand out there. I did have one unmatch me because I wanted to meet up for coffee or whatever amd wouldn't just hook up that night From our previous posts, I don't think you and I are looking for the same thing, so we probably aren't going to look in the same places. I'm not really into the thirsty, ho-fessional type girls. I want a girl next door type who isn't shopping for hookups online. I like 'em a lil classy, ya know. For the record, I'm not knocking it. Two of my best friends strictly date strippers and sex workers. Lol, you always end up coming home with stripper shrapnel after you hang with them (glitter). Edited August 17, 2015 by HereNorThere 1 Link to post Share on other sites
loveweary11 Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 I'm saying you obviously didn't pick older women if most of your picks matched and most are college aged. So if you were trying to choose older women visually, you failed. You chose college aged women, and that's why you have college aged matches. I picked a lot of 30+ yo women. 60-70% were that age. (ok, i did look as i right swiped) But... it's the young ones that matched me back. Seems older women don't like me, but younger ones do. I'm lost on that, but it seems to be the case....even visually. Saw one of the hottest women I've ever seen in my life today. She was about 35. I'm a perfectionist. Skin tone, color, hair color, eye color, muscle tone, every little nuance. She had it all. I was literally getting aroused from across a couple booths. Have not wanted anyone that much in years! n Yet, she would look at every inch of that diner except over at me. I tried things to catch her eye. Nothing. Yet i have super hot college girls and foreign women making advances on me. I really, really, really wanted this diner seductress. She was at a work lunch though...otherwise I would have went right up to her. So... i seem to appeal more to younger women. Link to post Share on other sites
HereNorThere Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 I do think age makes a major difference. You have to hunt for 20 something year old women, but 30 something year olds hunt you. The predator now becomes prey. Lol, when I was younger, I always had this idea that old people were less horny. Now that I'm past 30, I don't even want to date women my age because the are soooooooooo THIRSTY. Maybe it's the biological clock thing or something, but it's such a turn off for me. Funny how we all have different experiences. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 I picked a lot of 30+ yo women. 60-70% were that age. (ok, i did look as i right swiped) But... it's the young ones that matched me back. Seems older women don't like me, but younger ones do. I'm lost on that, but it seems to be the case....even visually. Saw one of the hottest women I've ever seen in my life today. She was about 35. I'm a perfectionist. Skin tone, color, hair color, eye color, muscle tone, every little nuance. She had it all. I was literally getting aroused from across a couple booths. Have not wanted anyone that much in years! n Yet, she would look at every inch of that diner except over at me. I tried things to catch her eye. Nothing. Yet i have super hot college girls and foreign women making advances on me. I really, really, really wanted this diner seductress. She was at a work lunch though...otherwise I would have went right up to her. So... i seem to appeal more to younger women. If I were you, I'd be working on being more attractive to the super hot 30 year old type. Contrary to popular belief, older women (esp hot older women with their poop together) are usually far more selective than younger women. We've learned to be selective. Link to post Share on other sites
grokcahsevol Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 Note: In NYC, anyway. Results vary dramatically based on location. I've been thinking of moving to NYC... Long Island is getting boring! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
loveweary11 Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 If I were you, I'd be working on being more attractive to the super hot 30 year old type. Contrary to popular belief, older women (esp hot older women with their poop together) are usually far more selective than younger women. We've learned to be selective. This stuff is so conflicting. If I be myself, i get lots of hot younger women. If I fake it and be something I'm not, maybe I can get this coveted 30 yo hot woman type. Seems harder than sorting through all the women I get naturally just being myself. Thoughts? Link to post Share on other sites
Hawaii51 Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 @OP I just had coffee with a chicky at greenbeans in Bagram. lmao. I can't imagine what actually cities are dishing up. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 This stuff is so conflicting. If I be myself, i get lots of hot younger women. If I fake it and be something I'm not, maybe I can get this coveted 30 yo hot woman type. Seems harder than sorting through all the women I get naturally just being myself. Thoughts? I'm just going by your threads here on image, most of which seemed to be focused on attracting college aged women. The stuff about the high tops, the H&M shirts, etc. Are you really being yourself, or is that an image you created to attract young women? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
HereNorThere Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 If I were you, I'd be working on being more attractive to the super hot 30 year old type. Contrary to popular belief, older women (esp hot older women with their poop together) are usually far more selective than younger women. We've learned to be selective. Ugh, I so have to disagree with you there. 20 something year old girls are so flaky, fickle and way more selective. Most women past 35 will drop trout right there while their husband waits in the mini-van with the kids. Link to post Share on other sites
40 Fonzarelli Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 Ugh, I so have to disagree with you there. 20 something year old girls are so flaky, fickle and way more selective. Most women past 35 will drop trout right there while their husband waits in the mini-van with the kids. It's a little bit of both. 30+ women are pickier because they have less time to kill than younger women so they have to be more selective. But that's a problem in itself because the clock is ticking so being more selective may backfire. Link to post Share on other sites
HereNorThere Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 This stuff is so conflicting. If I be myself, i get lots of hot younger women. If I fake it and be something I'm not, maybe I can get this coveted 30 yo hot woman type. Seems harder than sorting through all the women I get naturally just being myself. Thoughts? No, just be breathing to get a 30 year old chicks. 20 something year old chicks, it has to be your day on the zodiac calendar. The stars have to align just right and it has to be a gnome's birthday. Why, because 20 something year old chicks CAN be selective. The can have any age group they want. Whether a guy is 30 or 65, he thinks the college chicks are hot. Girls Gone Wild didn't sell all those videos to college guys. Link to post Share on other sites
40 Fonzarelli Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 Installed Tinder Saturday. Have way WAY too many girls to talk to now. It's almost scary how many girls are on that app. I paid no attention to age. Clicked on anyone I found attractive. Just about all of them matched and I have about a billion people trying to go out this week to meet up. There are soooo many girls on it now. I highly suggest it to any guys having a shortage. I'm still getting a lot of college age girls vs older ones, but I'm not complaining. The sheer number of them is boggling my mind. I haven't had as much luck with Tinder. Just curious, is your main pic a headshot? I'm trying to do some experimenting to see what kinds of pics does better. Do you have a headline as well? Link to post Share on other sites
loveweary11 Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 I'm just going by your threads here on image, most of which seemed to be focused on attracting college aged women. The stuff about the high tops, the H&M shirts, etc. Are you really being yourself, or is that an image you created to attract young women? Yes. That's me. I like interesting things. I'm an early adopter of like... everything. Everyone my age wears H&M in NY. High tops look cool AF, so I want to grab a pair. I'm just being urban me. Link to post Share on other sites
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