HereNorThere Posted August 17, 2015 Posted August 17, 2015 Family guy got it right. Here's what it's like to go out on a blind date with a 37 year old woman- 1
loveweary11 Posted August 17, 2015 Posted August 17, 2015 I haven't had as much luck with Tinder. Just curious, is your main pic a headshot? I'm trying to do some experimenting to see what kinds of pics does better. Do you have a headline as well? My main pic is my avatar here too. I just used that one with some full body shots. one bathroom selfie and a shot in the gym. Non headline. Short description of my interests only.
Erik30 Posted August 17, 2015 Posted August 17, 2015 Maybe it works better in America, but I've been using Tinder for about two weeks now and it seems to be flooded with spambots. (I live in Europe) Probably 90% of the time a match turns out to be a fake profile. I guess scam sites are creating even more fake profiles because they also have to deal with the limited amount of likes. And when I finally do get a match with a real person, it seems that a lot of girls don't reply to messages. I did however meet a cute girl on it a couple of days ago, so it does work. But at times it can be frustrating.
RightThere Posted August 17, 2015 Posted August 17, 2015 Installed Tinder Saturday. Have way WAY too many girls to talk to now. It's almost scary how many girls are on that app. I paid no attention to age. Clicked on anyone I found attractive. Just about all of them matched and I have about a billion people trying to go out this week to meet up. There are soooo many girls on it now. I highly suggest it to any guys having a shortage. I'm still getting a lot of college age girls vs older ones, but I'm not complaining. The sheer number of them is boggling my mind. Agreed. Apparently it's great when you first start out because they pounce on the fresh meat.
MrNate 2.0 Posted August 17, 2015 Posted August 17, 2015 No, just be breathing to get a 30 year old chicks. 20 something year old chicks, it has to be your day on the zodiac calendar. The stars have to align just right and it has to be a gnome's birthday. Why, because 20 something year old chicks CAN be selective. The can have any age group they want. Whether a guy is 30 or 65, he thinks the college chicks are hot. Girls Gone Wild didn't sell all those videos to college guys. I'm pretty sure it takes more than 'just breathing' to land 30 year olds. The ones who have their stuff together are often mighty fine. And there's actually a few around here. I'm in my late 20's and I find them delicious. A woman's sex appeal goes way past 20's. Trust me, even the chicks in their mid 30's on up can afford to be selective. 3
DJOkawari Posted August 17, 2015 Posted August 17, 2015 College starts soon. Same sort of boom in any area with a few universities. At least that's my current experience as well. 1
RoseVille Posted August 17, 2015 Posted August 17, 2015 Rats! I have a fake FB account I use to play Scrabble, but I don't want to set up a real one. I guess I could use my pic with a fake name. You could, but it also uses whatever name is on your FB. So if you have a FB with "Sycamore Circle" as the name, it'll show up on Tinder as "Sycamore." Tinder is perfect for OP. It's all about appearances.
RoseVille Posted August 17, 2015 Posted August 17, 2015 My main pic is my avatar here too. I just used that one with some full body shots. one bathroom selfie and a shot in the gym. Of course... So Tinder-esque! All form over substance! 1
menyou Posted August 17, 2015 Posted August 17, 2015 wait, Tinder is real? i thought it was a spoof app....
loveweary11 Posted August 17, 2015 Posted August 17, 2015 (edited) Of course... So Tinder-esque! All form over substance! And more girls than I could ever hook up with in a lifetime, so.... Obviously, it works just fine. Edited August 19, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
menyou Posted August 17, 2015 Posted August 17, 2015 all of the other OLD apps are bad enough, ill stick with thinking Tinder is a joke.
RoseVille Posted August 17, 2015 Posted August 17, 2015 (edited) And more girls than I could ever hook up with in a lifetime, so.... Obviously, it works just fine. When you're offering to spoil girls online "with shopping, gifts, cash, dinners, drinks and just a great time," and outright calling yourself on multiple dates sites a "sugar daddy" who's looking for a "generous relationship" where you're "the giver," of course you'd end up with tons of women offering to hook up with you. While it's not my thing, admittedly there are tons of women who are into that lifestyle, and all the power to them if they can get something of value (like a nice handbag!) out of it. But it's all form ($$) over substance (intimacy, love, real relationships), and I really do prefer the latter, which is very hard (not impossible) to find anywhere, least of all on Tinder. Edited August 19, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator 3
HereNorThere Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 Yup, it's all about what you're looking for. If you want anonymous, meet you in the bathroom stall on my layover airport sex, there's an app for that. If you want to marry a normal, decent person that isn't all hypersexual and doesn't have a coke problem, they have an app for that as well. There's a lot of app-ortunies for these thirsty lurkers. 2
loveweary11 Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 (edited) You seem to think that anyone who disagrees with your choices is "attacking" you. When you're offering to spoil girls online "with shopping, gifts, cash, dinners, drinks and just a great time," and outright calling yourself on multiple dates sites a "sugar daddy" who's looking for a "generous relationship" where you're "the giver," of course you'd end up with tons of women offering to hook up with you. While it's not my thing, admittedly there are tons of women who are into that lifestyle, and all the power to them if they can get something of value (like a nice handbag!) out of it. But it's all form ($$) over substance (intimacy, love, real relationships), and I really do prefer the latter, which is very hard (not impossible) to find anywhere, least of all on Tinder. I believe in traditional gender roles where I am the man and a woman is a woman. The gender neutral life only appeals to a tiny subset of the population. The vast majority prefer a man to be a man and a woman to be a woman. So you learned one of my online dating secrets. I convert those looking to be sugar babies into free hook ups and dates. Works like crazy to get me the best looking women on Earth. So what? One of my primary skills in life is marketing. I used it to become somewhat wealthy and to gather the best looking women on Earth. Is it a problem for you that I win in life? lol Edited August 18, 2015 by loveweary11
Kamille Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 Is it a problem for you that I win in life? lol Are you? I thought you were looking for that rare exotic animal, the adventurous, creative, bohemian New Yorker. 2
loveweary11 Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 Are you? I thought you were looking for that rare exotic animal, the adventurous, creative, bohemian New Yorker. I am. Drunk atm though. Killed a couple bottles of champagne with a friend before Tinder date #2 comes over at 10:30. I'll get serious when I meet "the one" Time to get back to the rock pile tonight.
loveweary11 Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 Yes, I'm flip flopping a bit. I admit it fully. 1
xxoo Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 No, just be breathing to get a 30 year old chicks. 20 something year old chicks, it has to be your day on the zodiac calendar. The stars have to align just right and it has to be a gnome's birthday. Why, because 20 something year old chicks CAN be selective. The can have any age group they want. Whether a guy is 30 or 65, he thinks the college chicks are hot. Girls Gone Wild didn't sell all those videos to college guys. BUT....none of the 30s women matched him back. And the hot 35 year old in the diner wouldn't meet his eye contact. LW, if you want to attract hot 30 year somethings, you've got to look mature. They want a man who is comfortable living in the 30/40 year old world, not a man who looks like he belongs among coeds. Someone they can feel good about introducing to their colleagues and their peers. Someone who fits into their adult lifestyle. And yes, as you've seen, the can be quite selective. 2
xxoo Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 Yes, I'm flip flopping a bit. I admit it fully. Yeah, you've got to figure out want you want. If you decide you want to attract a more grown woman, we can help with that 1
loveweary11 Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 Yeah, you've got to figure out want you want. If you decide you want to attract a more grown woman, we can help with that You're completely right. I'm *almost* ready, but apparently not quite. I have to kick the young girl thing before I can move on toa different type of thing. I'm soooo close, but not there yet. It's weird. I've been the "cool guy" since late high school and honestly, it's always got me lots of female attention. I'm having some trouble giving that up. To be a button down dork just sounds awful to me.
HereNorThere Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 (edited) Wait, whoa whoa whoa... Hold up.. You're attracting younger girls and its a PROBLEM? Oh no, you have it wrong. If you're attracting college chicks, you're doing doing something RIGHT! If you're trying get some 30 something action... Just take a picture with your 401k or something. Throw in that you're taking baby aspirin everyday and get a dinner discount if you show up before 4:30. Mention something about your fiber intake and hiking. Otherwise, man, pour it up. What, are you going to live forever? Edited August 19, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Merge 1
loveweary11 Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 Wait, whoa whoa whoa... Hold up.. You're attracting younger girls and its a PROBLEM? Oh no, you have it wrong. If you're attracting college chicks, you're doing doing something RIGHT! It's all i get. I have dozens of college and younger age girls orbiting around. My Tinder matches are all under 24. I'm trying to find love and a chick to travel with. Love shack says I need to find an older woman to find love (ex wife was about 10 yrs younger than me too). So i am listening to what everyone is saying here. But yeah... the hottest, youngest women on the planet are pretty much who I'm hooking up with and dating right now.... for better or for worse.
HereNorThere Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 It must be so hard for you. I guess things are tough all over. 1
xxoo Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 You're completely right. I'm *almost* ready, but apparently not quite. I have to kick the young girl thing before I can move on toa different type of thing. I'm soooo close, but not there yet. It's weird. I've been the "cool guy" since late high school and honestly, it's always got me lots of female attention. I'm having some trouble giving that up. To be a button down dork just sounds awful to me. Who wants a buttoned down jerk? I bet the hottie in the diner doesn't. Spend more time with cool people your age, men and women. This should be easy in NYC. 2
compulsivedancer Posted August 18, 2015 Posted August 18, 2015 It's all i get. I have dozens of college and younger age girls orbiting around. My Tinder matches are all under 24. I'm trying to find love and a chick to travel with. Love shack says I need to find an older woman to find love (ex wife was about 10 yrs younger than me too). So i am listening to what everyone is saying here. But yeah... the hottest, youngest women on the planet are pretty much who I'm hooking up with and dating right now.... for better or for worse. So just change your age requirements. Problem solved.
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