reddragon588 Posted October 2, 2013 Share Posted October 2, 2013 idk, its just that when she told me "that was the time to win me back" i was like "fuuuuuuuuccccckkkk! i could have gotten back with her but instead i chose NC." The idea of "winning someone back" is terrible. Relationships need to be between equals. A person is not a prize to be won. And even if you "win" her, there is not an equal balance in the relationship because it simply reinforces that she has control over you. Relationships where one controls the other do not work out well. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
reddragon588 Posted October 2, 2013 Share Posted October 2, 2013 Ready for the key word; USE TO BE!!!! EVERY relationship, at one point, USE TO BE so good. Thats why they were in the relationship in the first place. You are failing so hard at this because you keep doing this to yourself. I kinda want to tell you to go with their advice so you fall on your face and truly get what the 1000 people WHO HAVE SEEN AND HEARD AND BEEN IN THE EXACT SITUATIONS are trying to tell you. This is getting incredibly comical at this point. Ike and Tina use to have a great relationship. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
cavalier99 Posted October 2, 2013 Share Posted October 2, 2013 idk, its just that when she told me "that was the time to win me back" i was like "fuuuuuuuuccccckkkk! i could have gotten back with her but instead i chose NC." Let me be very clear. There was never any chance of her getting back with you. This whole fight for her BS is all about her ego and at the expense of your healing. In fact the only .000001 percent chance you had for it to work out (not that you should even take her back) was in fact going NC. Has she shown up begging you back? NO. Has she shown the least bit of remorse at tearing your heart into a million pieces? NO. Has she truly given you any indication that she F*cked up and is distraugh over throwing you out like yesterdays trash? NO Time to man up and move on from this train wreck of a girl. Make this her loss not yours. Cav 3 Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted October 2, 2013 Share Posted October 2, 2013 Ike and Tina use to have a great relationship. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA post of the year. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted October 2, 2013 Share Posted October 2, 2013 Hey look, another one of these threads. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
lindsay1990 Posted October 2, 2013 Share Posted October 2, 2013 Has she shown up begging you back? NO. Has she shown the least bit of remorse at tearing your heart into a million pieces? NO. Has she truly given you any indication that she F*cked up and is distraugh over throwing you out like yesterdays trash? NO. I should print this for myself. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jiminy Cricket Posted October 2, 2013 Author Share Posted October 2, 2013 Ike and Tina use to have a great relationship. if my relationship is going to compare to theirs, it would be like papercut to getting stabbed. lol. Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted October 2, 2013 Share Posted October 2, 2013 if my relationship is going to compare to theirs, it would be like papercut to getting stabbed. lol. Quit avoiding what we are actually telling you behind humor and whatever. LISTEN TO WHAT WE ARE SAYING TO YOU!! Load of experience and helping several others gives you some much needed experience on the matter. I know and see Cav, Guitar, Biker, and Dragon on here a lot helping others. There are LOADS more people that I can mention that have seen this story 1,000,000,000 times. I can attempt to drag ALL of them in here and tell you exactly what we tell you in every thread you create. The carousel you are on won't stop until you step down. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted October 2, 2013 Share Posted October 2, 2013 if my relationship is going to compare to theirs, it would be like papercut to getting stabbed. lol. And in both instances, you are the one all bloody. Seriously dude, quit acting like this girl's bitch. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
melell Posted October 2, 2013 Share Posted October 2, 2013 This is f'ing crazy. There is nothing unique here. Break the emotional ties by using nc and then you will see it completely differently. That is why everyone recommends nc, it isn't just some random thing that people say, it has a purpose. Go nc, it will make you grow up. What you are doing now is pathetic, and a waste of your time. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jiminy Cricket Posted October 13, 2013 Author Share Posted October 13, 2013 if you read my previous posts you'll understand my situation. anyways I got an iMessage from her saying "send me my jacket and we'll talk." so she really wants this jacket back bad. I don't understand what she means by "talk" reconcile or what. I really don't care about the jacket anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
reddragon588 Posted October 13, 2013 Share Posted October 13, 2013 Dude, just give the jacket to a friend to give to her and continue to ignore her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jiminy Cricket Posted October 13, 2013 Author Share Posted October 13, 2013 Fine I'll just send it. can't believe I'm giving into her. f*ck!! Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted October 13, 2013 Share Posted October 13, 2013 Put it on ebay and tell her to make a bid on it. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
JDPT Posted October 13, 2013 Share Posted October 13, 2013 Just give it back, AND don't make this an excuse to talk to her. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
reddragon588 Posted October 13, 2013 Share Posted October 13, 2013 Fine I'll just send it. can't believe I'm giving into her. f*ck!! Oh wait.. isn't this a jacket she gave to you? Never mind, don't give it to her and continue to ignore her. What right does she have to ask back something she GAVE to you? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Stealth3 Posted October 13, 2013 Share Posted October 13, 2013 or burn it and send her the ashes. Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted October 13, 2013 Share Posted October 13, 2013 give her the jacket back........you dont need it....dont listen to others who tell you to burn it send her the ashes its childish...be the bigger man.....do the right thing send it......just because she is doing wrong doesnt mean you have to .....rise up and go above that will be your peace..........deb Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted October 13, 2013 Share Posted October 13, 2013 give her the jacket back........you dont need it....dont listen to others who tell you to burn it send her the ashes its childish...be the bigger man.....do the right thing send it......just because she is doing wrong doesnt mean you have to .....rise up and go above that will be your peace..........deb The thing is she gave it to him and HE LIKES the jacket! Apparently it's some vintage jacket of his favorite football team. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 give her the jacket back........you dont need it....dont listen to others who tell you to burn it send her the ashes its childish...be the bigger man.....do the right thing send it......just because she is doing wrong doesnt mean you have to .....rise up and go above that will be your peace..........deb Are you kidding? It was a gift she gave to him. It would be the wrong thing for him to send it back. He shouldn't burn it -- he should donate it to Goodwill or something. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jiminy Cricket Posted October 14, 2013 Author Share Posted October 14, 2013 i really don't want to give her the damn jacket, its mine. i talked to my friends. they said the same exact thing, make her bid on it on ebay, burn it and show her, its yours don't send it. i'm going to mess with her and say, i'll give you the jacket if you get back with me. Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 i really don't want to give her the damn jacket, its mine. i talked to my friends. they said the same exact thing, make her bid on it on ebay, burn it and show her, its yours don't send it. i'm going to mess with her and say, i'll give you the jacket if you get back with me. Oh come the fu*k on. That's pathetic. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jiminy Cricket Posted October 14, 2013 Author Share Posted October 14, 2013 Oh come the fu*k on. That's pathetic. lol, i said i'm going to messwith her. Link to post Share on other sites
reddragon588 Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 lol, i said i'm going to messwith her. Whether or not it's a joke, it will make you look pathetic. For her, perception is reality. Just ignore her, she's being immature. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jiminy Cricket Posted October 14, 2013 Author Share Posted October 14, 2013 i know it is. but when she said we can "talk." what do all you guys thinks she means by this?? and this whole jacket drama she's creating is really weird..i feel like asking her what's the big deal. Link to post Share on other sites
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