ConfusedHumanBeing Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 i know it is. but when she said we can "talk." what do all you guys thinks she means by this?? and this whole jacket drama she's creating is really weird..i feel like asking her what's the big deal. Hahahahahaha I see you have gotten better. Link to post Share on other sites
reddragon588 Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 i know it is. but when she said we can "talk." what do all you guys thinks she means by this?? and this whole jacket drama she's creating is really weird..i feel like asking her what's the big deal. It means she's trying to manipulate you into doing what she wants. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jiminy Cricket Posted October 14, 2013 Author Share Posted October 14, 2013 Hahahahahaha I see you have gotten better. seriously or are you being sarcastic? Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 seriously or are you being sarcastic? No dude totally sarcastic. You still havent moved on at all from the breakup and caught up on "jacket fiasco 2013" to the point you still think it means something. You have to stop.man. This cycle has to end. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jiminy Cricket Posted October 14, 2013 Author Share Posted October 14, 2013 No dude totally sarcastic. You still havent moved on at all from the breakup and caught up on "jacket fiasco 2013" to the point you still think it means something. You have to stop.man. This cycle has to end. i mean this **** keeps coming up, this is like the f*cking 4th time in 1 1/2 months she's asking for the jacket. i keep ignoring her, and i tried to block her, but she keeps obsessing over this. i'm so confused on why this is so important and why shes desperate over it. it kinda makes me feel better though, knowings it's driving her crazy. its kinda like revenge. Link to post Share on other sites
reddragon588 Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 i mean this **** keeps coming up, this is like the f*cking 4th time in 1 1/2 months she's asking for the jacket. i keep ignoring her, and i tried to block her, but she keeps obsessing over this. i'm so confused on why this is so important and why shes desperate over it. it kinda makes me feel better though, knowings it's driving her crazy. its kinda like revenge. From everything you've said here, it sounds like she craves power. She's using this jacket to try to regain power by manipulating you to do what she wants. Don't give her the satisfaction and move on with your own life. If you have an iPhone, you can block texts and calls from a number. I'm also sure that the other phone carriers will copy this feature in their upcoming releases now that Apple has done this. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jiminy Cricket Posted October 14, 2013 Author Share Posted October 14, 2013 From everything you've said here, it sounds like she craves power. She's using this jacket to try to regain power by manipulating you to do what she wants. Don't give her the satisfaction and move on with your own life. If you have an iPhone, you can block texts and calls from a number. I'm also sure that the other phone carriers will copy this feature in their upcoming releases now that Apple has done this. you're right she does crave power. i guess this jacket is the only way of getting back at me. you know i have a picture of her naked sitting on my lap, with me wearing the jacket. i feel like sending her the picture saying "oh, you mean this jacket?!" and then send it to all her family and friends... lol. oh yeah, i just upgraded to the new iphone.. i just read that if you use imessage you still get it on your mac and theres no way of blocking that though. Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 i mean this **** keeps coming up, this is like the f*cking 4th time in 1 1/2 months she's asking for the jacket. i keep ignoring her, and i tried to block her, but she keeps obsessing over this. i'm so confused on why this is so important and why shes desperate over it. it kinda makes me feel better though, knowings it's driving her crazy. its kinda like revenge. I HIGHLY doubt that. Its very easy to block someone if you really wanted to. Obviously, you like the attention because you feel if she is still talking to you, even like this, then there is still a level of caring. Has nothing to do with that at all, so why keep doing this? Tell her NO or sell it. BAM problem solved. She might get mad and say crap to you for a day or two BUT again, if you block her correctly, it WONT matter anyways. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
h0000 Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 people who break up then create dramas are extremely stupid and naive and its contagious. it makes you stupid too if you participate. if my ex messed with me I would totally lose my interest in him. you should just tell her " you are being stupid. if you wanna get back with me just get to the point otherwise stop the drama. I dont have time for this" 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jiminy Cricket Posted October 14, 2013 Author Share Posted October 14, 2013 people who break up then create dramas are extremely stupid and naive and its contagious. it makes you stupid too if you participate. if my ex messed with me I would totally lose my interest in him. you should just tell her " you are being stupid. if you wanna get back with me just get to the point otherwise stop the drama. I dont have time for this" maybe i should just be straight up with her, so i won't have to ask ppl about what her intentions are. i'm tired of this f*cking game she's playing. i'll say "stop this sh*t, what do you really want? this is so f*cking stupid, if you hate me, leave me alone, if you want me, then lets f*cking do this sh*t!! stop being a bitch and get to the point!" Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 Why do you still want her back? It just boggles my mind. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
h0000 Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 maybe i should just be straight up with her, so i won't have to ask ppl about what her intentions are. i'm tired of this f*cking game she's playing. i'll say "stop this sh*t, what do you really want? this is so f*cking stupid, if you hate me, leave me alone, if you want me, then lets f*cking do this sh*t!! stop being a bitch and get to the point!" Sure be straight up and ask her. Could have saved you loads of time. But I wouldn't word it like that...stay calm ...and i wouldnt say "if you want to get back lets do it",way to boost her ego.. Can I ask you though, is she really stupid and naive or this break up lowered her IQ level? you might want to think twice if you really want her back. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jiminy Cricket Posted October 14, 2013 Author Share Posted October 14, 2013 Sure be straight up and ask her. Could have saved you loads of time. But I wouldn't word it like that...stay calm ...and i wouldnt say "if you want to get back lets do it",way to boost her ego.. Can I ask you though, is she really stupid and naive or this break up lowered her IQ level? you might want to think twice if you really want her back. she's a high school teacher hahaha. she's not stupid, but she is a brat who throws tantrums when she doesn't get her way. you know, i was talking with my sister, and she said do you really want this girl back? i said yeah, but not now, i'd only get back if she was the person i use to know, if she stopped being a bitch, the girl i knew for 7 years before things went sour. Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 she's a high school teacher hahaha. she's not stupid, but she is a brat who throws tantrums when she doesn't get her way. you know, i was talking with my sister, and she said do you really want this girl back? i said yeah, but not now, i'd only get back if she was the person i use to know, if she stopped being a bitch, the girl i knew for 7 years before things went sour. Do you honestly think that that's going to happen anytime soon, if ever? If you do, you need your head examined. If you went back to her now, what possible motivation would she have to change from what she is now? You will have basically confirmed that you are her bitch. Honestly, for that scenario to ever happen, you need to completely disappear for a long time. Like 6-12 months minimum. And you need to stop wondering about her motivations. Until she says "I want to get back", her motivations don't matter. You waste so much time thinking about irrelevant crap. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
h0000 Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 high school teacher? way to set up an example for kids...probably some of her students are more mature than she is. You don't know if she's still the person you knew cuz everyone changes. But don't get involved in the drama. Like seriously you have better things to do. maybe just tell her if you only want to make scenes i am not interested. if you want my attention then talk about something meaningful? if she isnt stupid she should get the point. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jiminy Cricket Posted October 14, 2013 Author Share Posted October 14, 2013 high school teacher? way to set up an example for kids...probably some of her students are more mature than she is. You don't know if she's still the person you knew cuz everyone changes. But don't get involved in the drama. Like seriously you have better things to do. maybe just tell her if you only want to make scenes i am not interested. if you want my attention then talk about something meaningful? if she isnt stupid she should get the point. her students hate her, she tells me they call her a bitch all the time. this is her first year teaching too. i don't know why she changed, maybe its from all the stress at work or her health problems, and she's displacing her anger towards me. i just miss who she was, she use to be hella cool and loving. anyways, i think i will just ask her whats up, and try to keep calm about it... Link to post Share on other sites
h0000 Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 people just change. 7 years with so many things happening everyday, who doesn't change? I would think Justin Beiber was hot if I were 7 years younger! you are in love with the person you imagined. but she isn't her. Be prepared to accept the truth. Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 (edited) her students hate her, she tells me they call her a bitch all the time. this is her first year teaching too. i don't know why she changed, maybe its from all the stress at work or her health problems, and she's displacing her anger towards me. i just miss who she was, she use to be hella cool and loving. anyways, i think i will just ask her whats up, and try to keep calm about it... This is a disaster waiting to happen but you might as well. This is what you wanted to do from the start. Edited October 14, 2013 by Simon Phoenix Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jiminy Cricket Posted October 14, 2013 Author Share Posted October 14, 2013 people just change. 7 years with so many things happening everyday, who doesn't change? I would think Justin Beiber was hot if I were 7 years younger! you are in love with the person you imagined. but she isn't her. Be prepared to accept the truth. i am in love with the girl i use to know, but the current version of her sucks. its funny because i now realize that everyone kept saying to her all year, "who are you? what happened to you?!" Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jiminy Cricket Posted October 14, 2013 Author Share Posted October 14, 2013 This is a disaster waiting to happen but you might as well. This is what you wanted to do from the start. all this unnecessary drama, should just squash this. it will get me straight to the point, and give me a piece of mind. Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 her students hate her, she tells me they call her a bitch all the time. this is her first year teaching too. i don't know why she changed, maybe its from all the stress at work or her health problems, and she's displacing her anger towards me. i just miss who she was, she use to be hella cool and loving. anyways, i think i will just ask her whats up, and try to keep calm about it... Why post here if you dont listen to ANYONES advice EVER!!!!! Maybe she changed because she doesnt want you anymore??? Think of that one? Maybe she doesnt want you as a boyfriend anymore ever? No...how could you think of that? Between the haze of self conceitedness and a refusal to accept the truth, how could you? LOADS of people have tried to tell you what is going on. Been nice, had tough love, was sympathetic...the whole gauntlet of advice. Yet, for some reason, it just doesnt register. Do what you said. Tell me how that goes. Link to post Share on other sites
h0000 Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 i am in love with the girl i use to know, but the current version of her sucks. its funny because i now realize that everyone kept saying to her all year, "who are you? what happened to you?!" yeah she changed. what is your point? Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 all this unnecessary drama, should just squash this. it will get me straight to the point, and give me a piece of mind. I seriously doubt it. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 (edited) Because that jacket is the only link to you. A reason to contact you. I mean, she said it herself, give the jacket back and we'll talk. Another thing you need to think about is why is she so damn persistent about getting the jacket back? You once stated that it's vintage. I would talk to someone about getting it appraised. You said that she has a buyer interested in purchasing from her. I'm wondering how much the jacket is actually worth. I don't think that she would be contacting you 4 times if the thing was worth only 1 to 2 hundred dollars. She would if the buyer is willing to put up thousands. I would get the thing appraised and see what's up. There's got to be some sports memorabilia store near you. Or if you know the make (the manufacturer) and year of the jacket, google it. You might be sitting on a nice chunk of change and, legally, she doesn't have a leg to stand on because she gave it to you as a gift. Once she did that, she transferred ownership to you. Edited October 14, 2013 by Chi townD Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 One of the worst things a guy could be is a guy that has no backbone. And women that are selfish, throw tantrums and manipulate love men who are spineless. You want that girl back? It isn't happening. I even think the girl that you believe she was is something you're now manufacturing in your head. Idealizing. I am sure there were traces of this behavior when you were with her. People don't suddenly turn. You even said she was arrested and never told you. So, there is a level of destructiveness in her. I think she's always been a brat. She's always been selfish and manipulative. You're just in lalaland thinking of all the good when I am sure there was nasty as well. Staring at her naked sitting on your lap and going into fantasy land. It's the only way for you to stay in denial and hold on. And even if you wanted the "old" her back, how would you go about that? Sit and wait and check every month if she has changed? Get back with her and hope for change? How do you get the so called "old" her back without getting yourself hurt? What? When people show you who they are, believe them. I'm sure you've heard that before. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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