Fufu Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 Why do you let yourself continually getting played by this woman? You are smarter than this. Link to post Share on other sites
reddragon588 Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 all this unnecessary drama, should just squash this. it will get me straight to the point, and give me a piece of mind. You're going to squash the drama by involving yourself in it? Right now, this "drama" is only dramatic for her because she's the only one involved in it. You're just sitting this one out on the sidelines right now, watching her crash and burn. If you want to get involved, then go ahead but nothing good will come of that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jiminy Cricket Posted October 14, 2013 Author Share Posted October 14, 2013 i appreciate everyones input, and you guys are right. i'm not going to send it, its mine. but i do want to contact her about it, it won't do me any harm, but it will answer a lot of questions. the worst that can happen is her saying "f*ck you, i'm never talking to you again." like i've heard dozens of times in the past. this has to end, because if i ignore it, she'll never stop. who knows, maybe she's changed and she want's to talk about it, but i'm prepared for the worst. Link to post Share on other sites
reddragon588 Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 i appreciate everyones input, and you guys are right. i'm not going to send it, its mine. but i do want to contact her about it, it won't do me any harm, but it will answer a lot of questions. the worst that can happen is her saying "f*ck you, i'm never talking to you again." like i've heard dozens of times in the past. this has to end, because if i ignore it, she'll never stop. who knows, maybe she's changed and she want's to talk about it, but i'm prepared for the worst. Haven't you noticed that every time you go searching for answers you only leave with more questions? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 i appreciate everyones input, and you guys are right. i'm not going to send it, its mine. but i do want to contact her about it, it won't do me any harm, but it will answer a lot of questions. the worst that can happen is her saying "f*ck you, i'm never talking to you again." like i've heard dozens of times in the past. this has to end, because if i ignore it, she'll never stop. who knows, maybe she's changed and she want's to talk about it, but i'm prepared for the worst. Please contact her. I think it's the only way for you to move forward, more so backwards. At least you'll be moving instead of having been stuck on this issue for nearly three weeks. Enough of going on and on. Just do it. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
NoMoreJerks Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 (edited) that's the thing, why does she even care if i'm talking to another girl?! when she found out, she was hurt and said i have no loyalty towards her. she's extremely jealous, even months after the breakup, if i liked a hot girls picture on instagram, she still would get upset. Oh yeah, my ex did something similar actually. He broke up with me (for the 4th time), then, I pretty much went about my way not caring, kept him on facebook but was showing signs of not caring and of moving on (not deliberately either!), and he got mad at me and removed me from facebook, etc., then a month on, after I didn't chase after him when he removed me from facebook, he emailed me saying he had removed me from facebook because it was too hard for him to keep in touch. Too hard for him? HE had broken up with me! I think what is hard on them is the blow to their ego when we no longer chase after them, beg/plead/grovel, etc. He didn't want me back. But he did want to see me grovel, because it made him feel better about himself. It made him feel so desirable. The best thing to do is to ignore/not reply. Go full NC , FOREVER. She lost you, by breaking up with you. Why should you care about someone who discarded you like that? DO NOT engage with her on ANY level. Even if she's demanding back gifts she gave you, do NOT engage with her. You are just coming up with excuses to contact her. You both are playing games , it seems. Edited October 14, 2013 by NoMoreJerks 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Floppy Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 I know this is coming off like being a jerk but it has to be said. Your situation and the handing of it has become comical. I really do thnk its a joke and youre just trolling on here to get a rise out of people. For all of you heart broken people out there, read these threads. This is a text book case of how to 100% NOT handle a break-up. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 I know this is coming off like being a jerk but it has to be said. Your situation and the handing of it has become comical. I really do thnk its a joke and youre just trolling on here to get a rise out of people. For all of you heart broken people out there, read these threads. This is a text book case of how to 100% NOT handle a break-up. This post speaks the truth. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jiminy Cricket Posted October 14, 2013 Author Share Posted October 14, 2013 I know this is coming off like being a jerk but it has to be said. Your situation and the handing of it has become comical. I really do thnk its a joke and youre just trolling on here to get a rise out of people. For all of you heart broken people out there, read these threads. This is a text book case of how to 100% NOT handle a break-up. that's f*cked up, would i create this elaborate story for the sake of messing with ppl?! this really is happening, i'll even email the photos and text msgs. Link to post Share on other sites
Floppy Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 This whole thread is ****ed up! Your whole situation is ****ed up!!! If this is real and you REALLY want the texts to end. CHANGE YOUR NUMBER. Everything else is just an excuse to not let go and move on! Quit wasting everyones time. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 that's f*cked up, would i create this elaborate story for the sake of messing with ppl?! this really is happening, i'll even email the photos and text msgs. Shytt or get off the pot. I think it's getting redundant. No need for photos or text messages. Just do something and stop talking about it. Contact her and get it over with. If you want the texts to stop, block her. If all you want is to keep the jacket, keep it and ignore her. If you want to keep the jacket and get her back, then tell her so. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jiminy Cricket Posted October 14, 2013 Author Share Posted October 14, 2013 everyone knows my intentions, i want the jacket, and i want her back. this ends now. i'm going to contact her tonight, i'm prepared for another 3 hour long argument. only she has the answers i'm looking for. all i've learned from your guys' advice is that, she's a manipulative bitch, and i'm a doormat if i give in, which i'm not going to. its time to put her in her place. Link to post Share on other sites
reddragon588 Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 everyone knows my intentions, i want the jacket, and i want her back. this ends now. i'm going to contact her tonight, i'm prepared for another 3 hour long argument. only she has the answers i'm looking for. all i've learned from your guys' advice is that, she's a manipulative bitch, and i'm a doormat if i give in, which i'm not going to. its time to put her in her place. This will not end well for you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Floppy Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 I'll be sure to have the popcorn ready as I sit back and watch the fallout from this latest fiasco. I just don't understand how some people don't get it. For your sake I hope this is the GIANT wake up call you need to move forward. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 everyone knows my intentions, i want the jacket, and i want her back. this ends now. i'm going to contact her tonight, i'm prepared for another 3 hour long argument. only she has the answers i'm looking for. all i've learned from your guys' advice is that, she's a manipulative bitch, and i'm a doormat if i give in, which i'm not going to. its time to put her in her place. Calling her IS GIVING IN!!!!!! YOU ARE BEING A DOORMAT!!! THERE ARE NO ANSWERS!!!!!! I'm calling spam now 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Floppy Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 Calling her IS GIVING IN!!!!!! YOU ARE BEING A DOORMAT!!! THERE ARE NO ANSWERS!!!!!! I'm calling spam now Agreed This user should no longer be taken seriously. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 Agreed This user should no longer be taken seriously. I'm not saying that because everyone here needs to be. I value hos feelings like everyone else. He just has to realize that disreguarding pages upon pages of people telling him the SAME THING just seems unreal to me. Making mistakes is one thing...we're all human. Going out of your way to do the opposite seems like.....I don't even know how to finish that. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 A poster earlier asked why Jiminy was falling for this and that he's smarter than this. I'm starting to doubt if he is. Obviously Jiminy is bent on doing dumb sh*t, so go ahead Jiminy, be dumb. You've wanted to be dumb this entire time and you want to get back with this nightmare of a woman. Obviously you have no self-worth or value, so kiss her ass, be her bitch. Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 When someone is not ready to let go, they're just not. I don't think he's a spammer, but just a guy that is too crippled by his emotions. And, he's a doormat. We've all been there. No matter how many times we get slapped on the head with reality, we're too consumed with emotions to think straight. He just has to get slapped a few more times, then maybe he'll learn and it will all sink in. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jiminy Cricket Posted October 14, 2013 Author Share Posted October 14, 2013 A poster earlier asked why Jiminy was falling for this and that he's smarter than this. I'm starting to doubt if he is. Obviously Jiminy is bent on doing dumb sh*t, so go ahead Jiminy, be dumb. You've wanted to be dumb this entire time and you want to get back with this nightmare of a woman. Obviously you have no self-worth or value, so kiss her ass, be her bitch. i'm doing this for me, not to make her satisfied and give her power. for my own sanity and i have the right to do this, not knowing is the worst feeling. Link to post Share on other sites
Floppy Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 I realize some of my posts have been harsh on this thread. If this guy is truley this delusional and in this much pain I sympathize with him and apologize if I got out of line. I just have a hard time believing some of these things and he STILL wants her back. Maybe i need to go NC with this thread and just move on myself. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 i'm doing this for me, not to make her satisfied and give her power. for my own sanity and i have the right to do this, not knowing is the worst feeling. Whatever dude, you are basically her pet. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 I realize some of my posts have been harsh on this thread. If this guy is truley this delusional and in this much pain I sympathize with him and apologize if I got out of line. I just have a hard time believing some of these things and he STILL wants her back. Maybe i need to go NC with this thread and just move on myself. Yeah, I can't believe it either. He almost sounds like a battered spouse at this point. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 Okay dude, if you're going to do this, then I strongly recommend that if you talk to her, the conversation should ONLY be about the jacket and nothing more. Be, calm and treat it as like any other business deal. The first time she talks about anything other than the jacket, hang up. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 I just have a hard time believing some of these things and he STILL wants her back. . Neh, people get broken noses and cracked ribs and still go back to their abuser. This is nothing new, just a different degree of battery. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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