Tony T Posted January 11, 2001 Share Posted January 11, 2001 Whether she actually cheated on you or not is totally immaterial. She lied really bad, you will never trust her again...and you won't need to because she is OUT OF YOUR LIFE. Don't ever talk to her again. If your lady can't be honest with you, then you really don't have a lady. Just simple as that. Get this behind you. You sound like a basket case now and I can truly understand. Talk to friends, counsellors, clergy or whoever you trust. You need people around you to talk this hurt out with. Just don't talk too many people's ears off too much. Get out and do special things for yourself. Be kind and gentle to yourself...and start eating again, at least get some nourishment. I know you haven't been eating right because I've been there more than a few times. You are a lucky man for getting this woman out of your life. You are extremely lucky for finding out what kind of a deceitful, lying, underhanded, rotten girlfriend you had at this point. You may not have found out for another year or two. Some don't find out until after they're married and have two or three kids. Don't lose your job over some sleeze you will never see again. No, you don't love her at all. You love the person you thought she was but that person never existed. It is impossible for a man like you to love someone who pulls the kind of crap she did. Don't let her dishonesty and lack of character create such havoc in your life. Get back to work and get your mind back on things that are important in your life. You will eventually forget this lady entirely. Right now, spend your time in productive enterprises and heal from this so you can get out there and find you a truly nice lady. There are lots of them around. This was a lesson...you have learned it...so snap out of it as quickly as possible. Letting her destroy you is not a tribute you want to pay to such a slut. Link to post Share on other sites
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