agrivated Posted December 2, 2004 Share Posted December 2, 2004 Hey all, I have a lover that I have been seeing for about 6 months now. The thing is, he's my ex. He knows that I really care for him and I know he really cares for me as well. See, within the past 6 months, he's already gotten kind of frightened of the feelings that he is developing for me...he had even blocked me on AIM for a week and told all my friends I was psycho. Well after that week, he contacted me through a pm and started apologizing and all. I forgave him, I deeply believe in second chances. (there was a bit more involved in this, but this gets the jist of it) Well, a couple of weekends ago, him and I saw eachother (as we had been doing almost every weekend) then, out of no where, with no reason known by me, he blocked me on aim once again. No e-mails, no calls from him, no pm's...the only reason I know he blocked me is because one of our mutual friends informed me of it. Finally, my lover called me the night before last, acted like everything was fine, acted like he hadn't been ignoring me for two weeks. I kept it as cool as I could while trying to ask him why he blocked me and ignored me. His excuse was "I've been so busy lately" and he came up with a list of things. Now yes, he's in college for art, but my perception is that he didn't need to block me or ignore me like he has been, he could've just told me that he was busy....but one more thing, our mutual friend, being concerned for me, asked my lover why he was doing this to me, and my lover responded "I don't know who the hell you're talking about"....this was a week before he called me. Am I being histrionic (overly-dramatic)? I mean, he DID tell me the other day that he would talk to me later, that he had unblocked me (which he hasn't) and he told our friend he didn't know who the hell they were talking about. What should I do? I really do love my "lover", and I haven't told him COMPLETELY how I feel about him and I thought I was ready to until this happened. Do I tell him anyway? Or no? Do I keep trying my best to understand his 'situation'? Or just give up? HELP ME OUT... Link to post Share on other sites
missopinionated Posted December 2, 2004 Share Posted December 2, 2004 This guy's not worth it. Run away. Link to post Share on other sites
Ms_Sweetness Posted December 2, 2004 Share Posted December 2, 2004 I wouldn't tell him anything about my feelings because he may try to use them against you. You don't need this guy because if he is treating you like this and the two of you aren't officially together, then imagine what your life would be if you were in a relationship. Get out of there. Link to post Share on other sites
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