av2013 Posted October 6, 2013 Share Posted October 6, 2013 I am happily married with my wife for the last one and half years. Unfortunately we have not had kids yet. My wife recently visited her friend who stays far away and was there for sometime. After returning my wife told me that a tribal woman who massages had visited her at her friend's home.The tribal woman gave my wife a massage. My wife told that the tribal woman asked her if my wife has not had any kids. After my wife said yes, the tribal woman asked my wife whether she could do something that would increase the chances of getting a child. My wife consented. My wife told me that the tribal woman then proceeded to get my wife completely devoid of clothes and then massages and kissed my wife at the spot where her ovaries are. I told my wife not to entertain any such thing in the future from any of such tribal women or other women. My wife seemed a little hurt and told me that due to my habit of taking such things negatively she is sometimes concerned after telling such things that she would feel to share with me. My wife said it was just the ovaries that the tribal woman concentrated on and nothing else. My wife does visit beauty parlours regularly and there she does get massages. She said that the tribal woman was the first woman however, who got her naked completely. I dont know whether to believe her but I should however act that I have believed her. I am curious to know here whether such a thing is common for a woman? Also after hearing about this massage from the tribal woman, I have concerns about whether my wife is developing new sexual orientation towards the same sex. Link to post Share on other sites
lollipopspot Posted October 6, 2013 Share Posted October 6, 2013 No, this scenario isn't common in my experience. But I would not assume that your wife is "having a new sexual orientation." Unless you have some other indication, I would take it at face value and believe that she was wanting to believe that the tribal woman (shaman?) had some special power to help her conceive. I think one thing that is happening here is that I know very few men who would let another man strip them down and do something like this. They would feel the other man was coming on to them sexually. But the boundaries for whatever reason are a little looser for many females in this respect. Lot of females hold hands with their female friends (especially when they're younger), and when they're in high school have sleep-overs in which they often sleep in the same bed, etc. and there is no sexual contact or thought of it. Female nudity or contact with other females is often non-sexual. Even though a male in the same position would never think of doing the same thing with another male. Link to post Share on other sites
Sparty97 Posted October 6, 2013 Share Posted October 6, 2013 It is not at all unusual to get nude for a massage. In fact clothing can make the providers job more difficult. Link to post Share on other sites
Eivuwan Posted October 6, 2013 Share Posted October 6, 2013 You seem a bit paranoid. Women getting massages from other women are normal. Link to post Share on other sites
Sparty97 Posted October 6, 2013 Share Posted October 6, 2013 My massage therapist is a woman. I am nude under the draping... no biggie, it's clinical. Now as far as the kissing ovaries thing? It's weird, but that's about it. Link to post Share on other sites
lollipopspot Posted October 6, 2013 Share Posted October 6, 2013 Now as far as the kissing ovaries thing? It's weird, but that's about it. I think that's really the part he's weirded out about (or at least the part that is unusual)... Link to post Share on other sites
crederer Posted October 7, 2013 Share Posted October 7, 2013 (edited) My immediate thought is why don't YOU start kissing her in those areas? She is obviously sensitive in a good way in those areas. Lick 'em. Problem solved. I am being a bit sarcastic but honestly man it sounds like your wife had a beautiful experience that she wanted to share with you and you got all jealous. I don't think it was a sexual experience for her but a spiritual one. Edited October 7, 2013 by crederer 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author av2013 Posted October 7, 2013 Author Share Posted October 7, 2013 (edited) Oh you mean to say that my wife might have really had a complete oral session from that woman instead of just the ovaries thing that she was telling me about? I did query her whether it was complete oral session, but apart from looking hurt, she also said that no masseur does those things as they are all professionals. More than being just jealous, what I feel is why she needs to get in to those kind of things. For example I don't even think of getting massaged by a guy, as I would be very much uncomfortable with some guy running his hands over my body(though I do feel it is perfectly alright for a guy to be massaged by another guy). Agreed that my wife has to be in her bare minimum clothes when she gets massaged at beauty parlors. I sometimes think why it so necessary for her to get massaged by some woman at a beauty parlor. But as "lollipopspot" said such things between women may be non-sexual. But after she told me that the tribal woman kissed on her ovaries, I do think like, why she had to allow that? For example if I had to be massaged by a guy and if he asked me whether he can massage me down there, I would be immediately stopping him as I would interpret that as a sexual move. My wife says it was completely non-sexual when the tribal woman massaged and kissed her ovaries part and says that she did it as a kind of treatment. But after hearing from my wife about such things I kind of get confused about how one can be so innocent as to think it is all for treatment when some one is touching the private parts. And I do suspect that she may be hiding from me about anything more that she might have undergone than just the ovaries kissing. Edited October 7, 2013 by av2013 Link to post Share on other sites
MidwestUSA Posted October 7, 2013 Share Posted October 7, 2013 (edited) Trust your wife when she says it was nonsexual. No one here is saying that she got "complete oral". I am imagining that this woman kissed her low on her tummy (I guess it's up to you whether that's considered a 'private part') not near her nether regions! And, it's completely normal to be naked while getting a massage, as long as the recipient is comfortable with it. I would have no problem with someone massaging me that low, as for the kissing, it's obviously some sort of tribal belief. It sounds like your wife was in a position to just go with it, I mean what can it hurt? Your wife is being upfront and honest. Look at it this way, maybe you'll be blessed with many, many beautiful, healthy children as a result! Do twins or triplets run in either of your families? Edited October 7, 2013 by MidwestUSA Link to post Share on other sites
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