TranslucentThoughts Posted December 2, 2004 Share Posted December 2, 2004 Christmas is coming up, and I'm not sure what to do. (concerning my ex) We really don't talk a lot... except for the occasional chit-chat... and we haven't established any sort of real friendship since our breakup. We're not on bad terms or anything though. I still talk to and hang out with his sisters (more than with him) and I am getting them both gifts for christmas. It feels weird not getting him anything though. But... anyway... I'm not going to get him anything, but maybe make him a card or something. Is that a bad idea? Or... would it just be a nice thing to do? I feel like I should, and I do want to. It's christmas after all. Heh... So... yeah.... should I bother... or what? What are other people doing for their exes for christmas. (if anything) Link to post Share on other sites
pancakepalace Posted December 2, 2004 Share Posted December 2, 2004 I was also pondering on sending a card. Real though decision. I think I'll do a hand-made card to show care spent in making it but will keep the writing real simple. I think we need more information about your situation to give opinions about the card. Like who dumped who. Things like that. pel Link to post Share on other sites
mj108 Posted December 2, 2004 Share Posted December 2, 2004 I was thinking about sending a "***** you" Ex-mas card. lol Maybe I should send him a hand-made card... when he opens it...out points the middle finger. lol Yeah, mine was a bad breakup. He cheated on me & told me goodbye after 2.5 years. Anyway, I agree with pancakepalace---it's according on who dumped who...& according on the situation. Bad situation for me---as you can see PS---liked the subject---caught my attention---EX-MAS. ha Link to post Share on other sites
Author TranslucentThoughts Posted December 3, 2004 Author Share Posted December 3, 2004 Well... He broke up with me... He said he loved me still, but wasn't "in" love with me. So... yeah... It was difficult for the both of us. Even though he seems to be moving on just fine.. unlike Moi. But, well... I just thought it would be nice if I didn't leave him out completely over the holidays... and just to let him know that I still care and that I don't want to be so closed off from him. We're not enemies. Things are just.... tense. Maybe sending him a nice card would lighten the air a little. Link to post Share on other sites
Cabras Posted December 3, 2004 Share Posted December 3, 2004 I am planning to send a card to her mom and dad's house, where she will be for the Holidays. It should definately suprise her. I was planning to stick to a nice card and a friendly message. She can figure out for herself how I feel about her. Link to post Share on other sites
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