livinglife1112 Posted October 8, 2013 Share Posted October 8, 2013 Hello Is it possible to be friend with a person you find sexually attractive? I been friend with this guy now for a while and we did flirt for a while until I told him to stop the flirting. The flirting was getting me frustrated.. I felt as he was teasing me so I told him to HALT and he complied.. For two weeks we did not talk.. However , we have since started talking again and we are being friendly. I would hate for the flirting to start again, but I just find him so yummy.. He does have a girlfriend and we should both respect that... I do want to remain friends with him but I don't know if it even possible.. Link to post Share on other sites
jimloveslips Posted October 8, 2013 Share Posted October 8, 2013 oh oh, trouble ahead... Link to post Share on other sites
imtooconfused Posted October 8, 2013 Share Posted October 8, 2013 oh oh, trouble ahead... I can be pretty certain that you would really like the flirting if it were not for the girlfriend. He gives no indication that his interest in you is stronger than for his girlfriend. So you need to set the expectation in your mind that he will never change his situation with her, that you will likely be never more than "just friends," and his flirting with you is merely to boost his ego. Once you come to realize all of that, you may no longer feel comfortable being friends anymore, just sayin'. Link to post Share on other sites
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