ferry989 Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 Well had a long conversation with my ex today and well she suggested meeting up. In this conversation I found out she's seeing another guy but also that she still loves me and wants me in her life. I told her I can't be in her life knowing she's with another dude. She did bring up that she wants to talk to me in person and at first I was very against the idea and I even told her she needs to think of what she wants really hard. She replied with "I know what I want" so I asked what she wanted then and she told me she needs to tell me in person. This is the conversation in a nut shell of course. She seems really unsure of where she is at right now in her life and I can tell she's not happy. She will not tell me over the phone and I don't know what to do. She seems like she still wants me in her life but I can't put myself through that. I guess I just need some advice and guidance. Help? I also am in the same situation but I didn't go to meet him as I know he will again ditch me. she just wanna be sure whether she is still attracted towards you and obviously she can miss you if she is not happy with that other guy. so in short she maybe just wanna dump her guy for u if she finds you attracting. Maybe but who knows! Link to post Share on other sites
Never Again Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 Just take it slow. Like dead s-l-o-w. Tip: Only meet once or twice a week the first few months. No heavy talks right now, get to know each other. You have all the time in the world for the heavy talks... If you rush this time, you will only pick up right where you left off before the break up, and find yourself broken up again. THIS. Premature reconciliation will only lead to DOOM. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Romaks Posted October 20, 2013 Share Posted October 20, 2013 any updates? Link to post Share on other sites
Polak Posted October 21, 2013 Share Posted October 21, 2013 any updates? Whoa there, it's only been 3 days since the last update! haha give it some more time! Link to post Share on other sites
Romaks Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 How'd it end? We'll never know... Link to post Share on other sites
Justachip Posted November 3, 2013 Share Posted November 3, 2013 Which reaffirms the fact that people don't come back here anymore after their re-con 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Philosoraptor Posted November 4, 2013 Share Posted November 4, 2013 Which reaffirms the fact that people don't come back here anymore after their re-con He came back and made another thread last week that was deleted. He was freaking out and worried about something. She was seeing one guy while talking to her ex. Emotional rebounding while not letting one guy go until she had a safe place to land. She's a mess and as many people have said, he'd be crazy to get back with her. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
veggirl Posted November 4, 2013 Share Posted November 4, 2013 But she still has that other guy. And you are okay with it. That just lacks self-respect. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
peruano99 Posted November 6, 2013 Share Posted November 6, 2013 He came back and made another thread last week that was deleted. He was freaking out and worried about something. She was seeing one guy while talking to her ex. Emotional rebounding while not letting one guy go until she had a safe place to land. She's a mess and as many people have said, he'd be crazy to get back with her. wait she was seeing her ex boyfriend while talking to the OP? I don't understand. Link to post Share on other sites
Philosoraptor Posted November 7, 2013 Share Posted November 7, 2013 wait she was seeing her ex boyfriend while talking to the OP? I don't understand. The OP was her ex boyfriend. She was in a relationship with someone else while talking to him. She is rebounding back and forth, and has the inability to be alone. She will continue this behavior until the point she spends some time alone and finds solace being by herself. Until that point she will be emotionally unfit for a true sustaining relationship. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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