bl816 Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 (edited) I've been with my girlfriend for about 6 months and we've been doing long distance for a little over a month. She's currently going to college on the other side of the country, so I'm not going to be able to see her until thanksgiving, we skype just about every day and text pretty often. She recently told me that one of her guy friends tried to kiss her, she's also told me awhile ago that she thought that this guy was attractive and reminded her a lot of her ex. She said that she turned him down and I believe it but I'm concerned having this guy around when I can't do anything about it. She wants to keep him around as a friend but I don't think that this guy has any intention of being her friend. Should I tell her how I feel about it or just leave it be and hope for the best? Edited October 10, 2013 by bl816
coolheadal Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 Yes tell her how you feel about it. Frankly you don't want the guy friend that reminds her of the EX to get a foot hold on her. Friend Zone might turn around being something else. Your intent it to have her focus her attention on you and off that guy. So do whatever you can. If you got the money get yourself on a plane over there. But if you don't just have to do whatever you can remotely. Now her interest seems to have changed if she allow this guy to kiss her. Going to take a lot of effort on your part on this one. She seems to be persuaded to easy. That's not a good sign. Also make sure you know if she doesn't show-up to Skype or other little things not adding up she could be with him. Keep us here in form of your progress.
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