cupideffect Posted December 3, 2004 Share Posted December 3, 2004 Alright here's the deal, I have been with my girlfirend for about 3 years now. We both live in New York but she plans on going to florida for law school. She has some freinds out there, and she asks me what she should do. I told her to follow her heart to wherever it takes her. But, now I'm scared that this long distance relationship is not going to last. What do i do and what shhould i tell her? Link to post Share on other sites
Hannah Posted December 6, 2004 Share Posted December 6, 2004 I think it could if you both put in the effort meaning traveling to see each other when you can . But if you are having doubts maybe you should just be friends so you end happy and you would be able to stay friends. Because living that far away you will be thinking about trusting each other . Good luck hope it helps *hannah* Link to post Share on other sites
EC Posted December 6, 2004 Share Posted December 6, 2004 I have a LDR. As anyone here who has read my posts can tell you its very hard and you need to have a lot of trust. It very rocky at first and will be so until your get kind of used to the longdistance thing. I mean you never get used to being apart from the one you love but it does get a little easier. As long as you keep up the communication and visist frequently or when you can and if you really believe you should hold on to this girl Then I say go for it. It's hard, you get lonely, and life seems to stop, but eventually it will be worth it. Its up to you. Link to post Share on other sites
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