Firemarshall Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 Background: 3 dates in one week. First date went great lasted 2 hours really hit it off. She text me immediately after and we kept on until midnight and said goodnight. It ended with her asking when the second date was. I replied next morning and we planned to watch the football game that upcoming Sunday. We text and talk a couple hours before the date and she offers a "romantic suggestion" prior to our Sunday date and suggests we go to the mountains in the morning. I agree we have a great day, converse well and have amazing chemistry. Note that She does mentioning she doesn't want a serious relationship. After the mountains we still go watch the football game with lunch and even go back to her place and have sex three times. I leave about 4am since we both work. A day lapses but we are still talking, especially about future rendezvous of more sex and dates. We plan a third date for Tuesday which is just lunch. Same chemistry everything. We kiss goodbye and she tells me to let her know when I want to hang out again. 5pm rolls around she asks how my day was. We talk off and on through the night, I'm with my friends and she tells me text her when I get home safe. I do that, we talk and flirt and I tell her I want to see her Wednesday. She declines saying she's busy. Thursday she is flying out of town to see her girlfriend and won't return til Monday. Today, We don't text all day until about 7 to which she usually initiates 90% of the time. So I finally initiate and ask her how her day went she's making distant small talk with me at this point, deflects my flirtatious advances and kinda leaves me on a cliffhanger... Feels like she suddenly went cold on me. I abruptly stopped the texting realizing the danger, but the thing is I have developed some early feelings for her. I presume she's busy packing for her flight and everything, but I definitely feel a distance from her. I feel I should go cold too, but I don't want to play games I like her. All I can hear now is she doesn't want anything serious. Don't get it! Please any advice? Link to post Share on other sites
mammasita Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 Wait, she told you up front she doesn't want a relationship then you go on to say that you like her and now you're confused because she's backing off.... What don't you get? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Firemarshall Posted October 10, 2013 Author Share Posted October 10, 2013 (edited) Well I got mixed vibes. She showed concern, she wanted future plans, she seemed highly interested. I am confused by all of that and what we did together. I am not confused by the serious relationship statement. Everyone says that at first because nobody wants to jump into something serious. But why would she suddenly go cold? Edited October 10, 2013 by Firemarshall Misspell Link to post Share on other sites
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 Wait, she told you up front she doesn't want a relationship then you go on to say that you like her and now you're confused because she's backing off.... What don't you get? Agreed. OP, you can't turn a wh*re into a housewife (and even if you could, why would you want to?). This one is just for sex. Link to post Share on other sites
ClemsonTigers Posted October 10, 2013 Share Posted October 10, 2013 I miss being in my 20's and having sex 3 times in one night. Do you really want a relationship with a women you just met on your first date saturday night and just over 24 hours later on Sunday night she's having sex with you? Is she really take home to mother worthy? She's probably got another penis she sees more regularly and your last round of texts were interrupting that coitus session. I also wonder if she's really going to visit a girlfriend this weekend. Probably a boyfriend and she's shutting down the constant texting BEFORE she goes to see him. You can do better. Link to post Share on other sites
odin673 Posted October 11, 2013 Share Posted October 11, 2013 The ones that get attached quickly(her) de-attach with greater speed and little to no warning. Link to post Share on other sites
Mascara Posted October 11, 2013 Share Posted October 11, 2013 Maybe she doesn't want to be with a guy who's willing to put out on the second date. That's hardly the type of man you'd take home to your family. Link to post Share on other sites
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