I'm not sure where this is going.

[tucker m]

This girl and I have started talking again, we have moments where we talk for a long time and then we suddenly stop for a period of time(sometimes days). Numerous occasions I have brought up her and I being an "item" together, and all times she seemed like it was a possibility. I asked her last night if she wanted to see a movie on Thursday and she sounded very positive that it was a yes, however today she said she had something to do and we couldn't go on Thursday. I feel like whenever I ask her if she wants to do something she always has "something to do" I kind of messed up and out of panic sent her a text message saying something along the lines of "Where are we going...?" she asked "How i feel about you?" I really wanted to know, but because I was scared of it being negative, I said "No, I just like when we talk." I need help, I'm not sure if her and I will ever be anything.

[Faith13/2]

This girl and I have started talking again, we have moments where we talk for a long time and then we suddenly stop for a period of time(sometimes days). Numerous occasions I have brought up her and I being an "item" together, and all times she seemed like it was a possibility. I asked her last night if she wanted to see a movie on Thursday and she sounded very positive that it was a yes, however today she said she had something to do and we couldn't go on Thursday. I feel like whenever I ask her if she wants to do something she always has "something to do" I kind of messed up and out of panic sent her a text message saying something along the lines of "Where are we going...?" she asked "How i feel about you?" I really wanted to know, but because I was scared of it being negative, I said "No, I just like when we talk." I need help, I'm not sure if her and I will ever be anything.

 

Should have got the answer as to how she felt about you.. It's better to get it over with now even if the outcome is negative. You never know what could happen, just be upfront with her and let her know how you're feeling once she answers and if the answer seems positive..

[mammasita]

Well if you wuss out, you'll never know. Its best to get an answer. Generally though, when I beat around the bush with a guy, it's because I'm not that into him.