Ginaa Posted October 11, 2013 Share Posted October 11, 2013 so, there is this guy who Ive had a first date with and it went great. We kept in contact while I went overseas for a bit, and he said that he had fallen in love with me.. Now since last week that I am back in the same country we planned to have our 2nd date and we were both really excited for it but when it turned out I couldnt make it that day things started to go wrong. When I asked him if we could meet the next day instead he said no, he had a lot of things to do.. then there was a gap in conversation for a few days and when I asked him why he is not in contact anymore he said, he doesnt have the time to write all the time.. but that he would write soon. Then when this weekend came around, I asked him so are you free this weekend, and he said that he couldnt promise anything. Then when I asked him just be honest with me tell me if this is not what you want anymore and he said to be truthfull, I dont know, I dont have the same feelings as I did at the start, Im really sorry. so what I dont understand is how things could have changed so quickly in a space of a week... any ideas what have might of been going on in his mind? Link to post Share on other sites
organizedchaos Posted October 11, 2013 Share Posted October 11, 2013 Wait, what? One date and he's in love with you? I don't think this is even the right forum for you. Just drop the guy and move on. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
hurts2death Posted October 11, 2013 Share Posted October 11, 2013 or just give it time... and learn to wait , he has a life 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ginaa Posted October 11, 2013 Author Share Posted October 11, 2013 or just give it time... and learn to wait , he has a life By giving it time what do you mean? :/ yeah..maybe im too clingy :/ Link to post Share on other sites
hurts2death Posted October 11, 2013 Share Posted October 11, 2013 i mean i am sure he has responsibilities,,,,, i mean you focus simulaniusly on sth else and take your mind from him.... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ginaa Posted October 11, 2013 Author Share Posted October 11, 2013 Wait, what? One date and he's in love with you? I don't think this is even the right forum for you. Just drop the guy and move on. yepp thats what he said. is that so strange ? Link to post Share on other sites
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