Birthday Blues

[Isabella82]

Tomorrow is my birthday and here I am crying about the fact that I know my ex won't call me. For my last two birthdays he has aways made it special, by taking me out and having a great time. His mother even took me out last year I turned 21 and my brother and my ex all went out to the bars, it was so much fun, and my ex and I were so close. Whenever we went out to the clubs or bars we always went together. So even if I go out I get reminded about how whenever I went out I was with him.

 

So here I am about to be 22, and 7 months after the break up I am still hurting. I truly loved my ex with all my heart, and I always thought we had the ideal perfect relationship, he broke up with me, and never looked back. I haven't really talked to him since, and that is what hurts the most.

 

He makes me feel like I am so easy to forget, and I never meant anything to him at all. After all the nights we would stay up talking about our future, I just don't know what the hell went wrong.

 

Any one have any advice or any experiences of their own that helped you get through your birthday after a break up.

[Merin]

Happy Birthday to you!

 

You know.. it always sucks when a relationship ends.. and it takes time to recover and feel 100% again..

 

Thats just the progression of things..

 

HOWEVER

 

Don't wallow in the what if's or what for's.. Call up your friends, get with your family and CELEBRATE your Birthday girl! You're going to be 22.. whoo hoo!

 

Take yourself to the mall and buy yourself something that makes you feel amazing;) Don't sit home and feel badly about what happened.. his loss regardless of his reason(s) you celebrated your life for a number of years without any help from him, and you will do it again for many more;)

 

Hang in there

[SpaceCoyote]

Well, if its any consolation, my ex dumped me on HER birthday.

 

Anyway, I say treat yourself. Do something nice for yourself or buy yourself something extravagant that you have always wanted but never could bring yourself to getting. Just live for yourself now, because that is who you need to make happy now.

 

P.S. Happy birthday.

[Isabella82]

Thanks Merin and SpaceCoyote, I will enjoy my birthday even though I am not with my ex. I am sure there will be many more relationships in my future. It's not like I am going to be alone for my birthday my friends, brother, and I are going to see 2 people from Bone Thugs N Harmony, and I get to meet them backstage, so I am excited about that.

 

I have to see it as if we were really meant for eachother then we would have worked things out by now, and I know I am young and I shouldn't be worrying about guys right now. This coming August I will have my BA in Psychology, and I will be starting a new life.

 

I just have to keep reminding myself that I deserve better then my ex, he lied to me a lot, and I should have not put up with it. He wasn't ready to grow up and have an honest relationship. Even though he always talked about marriage after college I think it probably scared him.