jellycat8487 Posted October 15, 2013 Share Posted October 15, 2013 I've been talking to an amazing guy for about 3 months and seeing him for about two. We have the greatest chemistry and I think we'll start officially dating at some point. He moved here about the same time I started talking to him, but he texts two of his exes and another girl who might just be a friend. I asked him about it and he said the girls know how he feels about them (which is that he's not interested), he's just being friendly, and they don't even live in the same city as us. We were playing a drinking game where he chose that I prank text someone instead of him taking a bunch of drinks and he was texting both of his exes. I went to the texts with his most recent ex and for some reason her full first name isn't entered, it's just 'D' but I knew it was his ex (was he trying to hide the name???). I scrolled up a bit and saw that she said I love you!!! I got so mad but tried to hide it for a bit. I brought it up later and he told me a story that she was suicidal and he intervened with her parents and such. After that I asked him to please not text those girls right in front of me but I continue to see all three of their names popping up on his phone and he texts them while we're hanging out. Do I need to chill or is it as rude as I think it is? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
tlegend Posted October 15, 2013 Share Posted October 15, 2013 I've been talking to an amazing guy for about 3 months and seeing him for about two. We have the greatest chemistry and I think we'll start officially dating at some point. He moved here about the same time I started talking to him, but he texts two of his exes and another girl who might just be a friend. I asked him about it and he said the girls know how he feels about them (which is that he's not interested), he's just being friendly, and they don't even live in the same city as us. We were playing a drinking game where he chose that I prank text someone instead of him taking a bunch of drinks and he was texting both of his exes. I went to the texts with his most recent ex and for some reason her full first name isn't entered, it's just 'D' but I knew it was his ex (was he trying to hide the name???). I scrolled up a bit and saw that she said I love you!!! I got so mad but tried to hide it for a bit. I brought it up later and he told me a story that she was suicidal and he intervened with her parents and such. After that I asked him to please not text those girls right in front of me but I continue to see all three of their names popping up on his phone and he texts them while we're hanging out. Do I need to chill or is it as rude as I think it is? If you have made it known that it makes you uncomfortable, and he chooses not to respect that, then yes it has crossed the threshold of disrespect. However, you can always try to find a happy medium and let it be known that him messaging them isn't what bothers you, but rather, the information on the texts. If he's unwilling to compromise, then maybe this isn't the relationship for you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
freetolove Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 wow this guy is a serious *******. Link to post Share on other sites
regine_phalange Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 If I were you, he would be dead already! Link to post Share on other sites
regine_phalange Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 Hey, just noticed this is old. Link to post Share on other sites
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