alison1 Posted October 16, 2013 Share Posted October 16, 2013 Hi. I am new to college and I have befriended two girls, nicole and danielle, who are also new students. They did not know each other from home, but they have classes together and I have no classes with them. We have gotten along really well and we would text each other and have a 3 way text message inbox between us. Even one weekend when danielle went home, i still hung out with nicole. We all live in separate dorms but we live close to each other. We all went home this weekend and left on good terms, but I have noticed that they have been excluding me since we have come back (i don't think its intentionally). For example, I write in our 3 way text message asking if they want to get dinner at 6:30, and only one of them answers. She says yes, but then she goes earlier with nicole without me, without even telling me she was going early, even though she made a commitment to go with me. Her reason was because she couldn't wait. That's fine, but she could have at least told me. However, then I come with my roommate to meet nicole and danielle at dinner. Things aren't awkward and they are really nice. We make plans this weekend to buy our halloween costumes. However, they told me they watched a movie together last night. They could have invited me to come. We all live in different dorms. I really don't want to lose touch with these girls because I have enjoyed hanging out with them and have became close with them. How can I avoid this? I feel that I am constantly asking them to hang out, and they are not asking me as much anymore. Like I feel that if i stopped keeping touch with them, they wouldn't bother to make plans with me anymore. Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
Assasda Posted October 16, 2013 Share Posted October 16, 2013 Cowgirl up. Get some new friends. Call the friend police, How old are you, asking this ridiculous question/? Link to post Share on other sites
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